Btw, I have found religion too much gynocentric. I'm a Muslim but honestly I have found Christian marriage more divine, spiritual, and romance oriented. Where women are also expected to be the giver in the marriage both love, affection, service and respect. In Christian marriage men and women both are equal partners with almost equal responsibilities(I know that duties must be different because of gender difference but the point is responsibility of providing comfort, show affection, loving each other and giving respect in short in a romantic mannner responsibilities are equally divided) In Christian marriage both spouses are equally obligated to be romantic to their partner.