My neighbor became widowed a year ago. He's in his 60's. He moved in some French broad in her 50's and thinks he's won the lotto! It's pathetic to watch. He spends all his money while she conserves hers. He's Jewish. I remember years ago I thought Hebrew men didn't think they had "arrived" unless they were supporting two families. As a gentile this would baffle me. These guys go out and become super stars to take care of the women who fuck pool boys in their condo complex. I know this because I used to be a pool boy at Terraces of Turnberry Isle Yacht and Racket Club on Miami beach back in the late eighties when I was in college. I'm widowed too and I would not give up my freedom for anything today, especially an old wrinkled up raisin spending nickels on my dollar to live with me and control my life. My late wife pulled her weight financially and that gave her the right to control me a little. But these guys just give them the keys to the castle and they do nothing for it. Boys don't wind up with a prune spreading her legs, especially when your old!