New here, looking for advice.

bacon_and_3ggs · 2019-04-20T00:04:37+00:00

Ok first relax...welcome to the rest of your life. You took the first step..and you are ahead of thr game be proud. You arent paying 1/3 of your take home pay to someone else to alienate and harass you. Props brother.

Coming here is just the first step. Your life has been defined by the chase of some unicorn.. society, your family, schools, etc have all raised you to be a slave to an ideal of what your life should be like.

White picket fence with a dog nice yard and 2.5 kids right? Why is it that all of us have that same ideal of what we are supposed to find? Brother...because we have been raised to slave away to the system looking for it.

We look past red flags women show us. We ignore all those 'friends' she has orbiting her...we pay for the dates..we buy the rings...meanwhile what do they do?

They fuck our groomsmen/brothers/neighbors/dudes next door...and we pay for all of it. They are raised to do that too.

Mgtow rips the mask off. There is no picket fence..society has been grooming us since birth to make us slaves to the system.

Watch a nick jr show. The men are always the fuckups..the women come to save the day every episode. Go to school. Girls are recognized for how cute they are..they learn the more I use my sex appeal the more shit I can get.

Off you go to college looking for a good girl..afterall that's what your single mom told you to do. Reinforced by a lifetime of programming about how women want the 'good guy'... in college you try to be nice..respectful..and yet you see that women that you want keep chasing thr dudes that are douchebags..that's the beginning of the redpill (ots called alpha fucks beta bucks).

Now you have a degree..get a good job yet still dotn have wife and the picket fence. . You've dated but they either flake on you(fucking some other Chad for tingles)

Then you turn 30..now those girls you've always wanted come hitting you up..nownthat you have a nice home..but they come with Chad's kid(s)..you feel soo lucky. You finally got the girl.

So you wife her up...she spits out a kid and you think all is good...finally you have what you always wanted.

Year or two later...shes always on her phone texting her 'friend'..she stats our late...doesnt do shit around the house..

Then she drops the 'I'm not in love with you anymore'...usually followed by a false domestic violence charge and divorce papers.

Just like that you are ripped from your home and your kids life. Now she gets the housex the kids...and you sleeping on your buddies couch.

6 months later the charges are dropped but you have been absent from your kids lives. Some feminist judges says you have been absent this long it's better the kids stay with ex in your house...which you now get to pay for..on top of alimony for her to fuck those Chad's from tinder again.

That is the life of men in 2019.

Yet you found it sooner. Avoid it brother.

We have 3 rules in mgtow.

Dont cohabitate Dont have kids Dont get married

That's it. You are only here for a limited time. Make it time you will be proud of. No woman can fulfill you. If you need others to bring fulfillment to your life spend some time getting your self worth.

For however long you are here...do what you want to do..as long as you dint break anybody the rules. Spend your money on yourself.

Welcome brother. I'm jealous of you. It took a divorce rape and child support rape for me to find this place. You found it before me. Your future is yours...own that bitch

Tyrone-Chaddingston · 2019-04-20T00:37:30+00:00

Ya gotta read The Manipulated Man by Esther Villar. It’s like a right of passage for all MGTOW. https://www.naturalthinker.net/trl/texts/Vilar,Esther/The_manipulated_man.pdf

krugerand9 · 2019-04-19T23:49:22+00:00

If its happiness you're after, you wont get it from a women in the longterm. It is well known that these men are the happiest on the planet...https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/a-69-year-old-monk-who-scientists-call-the-worlds-happiest-man-says-the-secret-to-being-happy-takes-a7869166.html

801735 · 2019-04-19T23:25:18+00:00

I can get someone else to fall in love with me

What is love?

but I don't really understand what that means at this point

... some of the most interesting people I know still don't.

Any advice in general?

Do take your time to listen to the linked above song a few times and pay attention to the lyrics.

DrFeelFantastic · 2019-04-19T23:41:31+00:00

If you're still interested in perusing women, Tom Lykies might be a better shout. Be attractive, have attractive things, just don't share them. Obviously, if Tom can do it, looking how he does, anyone can. Do as he says though, not as he does.

simplyrelentless · 2019-04-20T00:01:24+00:00

This sub has seeds of truth, but you’ve got to weed through a lot of crap to find it. Check out the stoic philosophers or Jordan Peterson for a contemporary, practical thinker.

Rational Male is a must read too.

2019-04-20T00:26:52+00:00

You a want a reason. First find a hobby, then understand that 99% of the time women will try to destroy your hobby because they want your full attention.

Happiness and love doesn't come women. It comes from yourself and achievements.

Women in this day and age only care about money.

Gaming, sports, reading and so many other things. Enjoy nights out with the lads, enjoy a drink at bar with the lads.

Get a fantastic job and good career but avoid women because they will try to destroy that career.

carlodelmazo · 2019-04-20T07:41:23+00:00

Lol if I want to bang, I bang, no one here tells you not to bang if you want, just be smart about it and avoid things like having kids when you don’t want it, and if you want kids go and have them.

The thing I understand is to go your own way in the path you want, and knowing there are more options than the one preestablished in society. And yes, that includes that if you get married and divorced you are ready to expend most of your money mantainting your ex wife and your kids, if you are cool with that, go ahead man.

For me the world is too undiscovered yet and there are many girls I still want to be with, experiences, sports, jobs, everything and that doesn’t compile with a family, and that’s my way.

Title	New here, looking for advice.
Author	Hidden__Squid
Upvotes	10
Comments	9
Date	April 19, 2019 11:20 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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