I feel like once you're here long enough, you kind of get lost in the rabbit hole. You keep digging until you forget what you were digging for because the red pill is an overload of information. Like with any other thing out there, most of the information is useless but there is a lot of good information to be found. The problem that most men who come into this sub run into which ends up being troublesome for the sub as a whole is that they lose touch with what they came here for.

This leads to a very nasty cycle of wasting precious time which can be spent doing more useful things in life and that very wasting of time, it wastes everyone elses time and hurts the sub as a whole. Often times, this wasting of time leads to your brain wondering off in random areas and wasting its energy on things that don't matter all that much.

Here is a classic example of how countless men lose touch with what they came to the red pill for.

The red pill, if I had to describe it to a guy that was interested in it, is a place where you can have politically incorrect discussions about sexual strategy. While in most places you have to censor yourself, on the red pill you can just leave it all out there. So there is no mystery to the fact that most guys came to this sub in order to get better with women and learn how to thrive in the modern dating market. You might have some guys who went through a nasty divorce but the reality, most men came here in order to better their situation regarding women.

But at some point, you lost touch with that.

Maybe the reality was too much for you or you realized that you cannot possibly compete with the "Chads" of the world. You realized that talking to a beautiful woman at a bar is tough, especially the part of having the balls to approach her. At some point, you realized this shit is a whole lot of work and it isn't as easy as you may have though.

Instead of tackling the obstacle head on, you got distracted because it was so intimidating.

You thought maybe it would be better to talk about politics.

Maybe its better if you talked about nature and animals.

Perhaps you glamorize MGTOW.

Maybe you glamorize how awesome life would be without sex and intimacy.

And you do this because you're weak.

I hate to hurt your sensitive feelings but you do it because you're weak. You got distracted from the goal because you were scared of the goal so you came with coping mechanisms. Those grapes were sour anyways, I mean who needs beautiful women in their lives right? Obviously you're better than a millionaire dating models because you are "such a deep thinker" with that fancy beard of yours that covers up your entire neck. Because you were too "smart" (weak and spineless) to talk to beautiful women and chase after the kind of lifestyle that brought you here, obviously you're better than the guy who was honest with himself and chased the lifestyle he managed to get.

You'll continue to waste time talking about pointless stuff while using motivational posts to somehow lift yourself up. Look at you read that Aristotle quote and feel so energized for 5 minutes right?

But not all hope is lost.....

You can start today, right now, by asking yourself "what brought me here?". Think and think hard about it, then think about how far off the track you managed to get and ask yourself why. If you were being honest, its because you're weak and intimidated by the challenge so you use this whole superiority complex towards game in order to cope and protect your ego. You can change all that by starting with asking yourself that very question and then asking yourself how being on this sub helps you in accomplishing that goal you want to accomplish.

This goes for the "experts" here too, no one is buying your shit about how you are "so over it" because you have had some success now, its like a millionaire saying he is over making money. If you want anyone to take you seriously, stop lying not just to this sub but yourself.