It used to be that going on dates and having sex was something enjoyable. Now, it seems so dangerous. You don't know if they will claim it's unconsentual even though from your view it was (they didn't say no or anything but later regretted it). I do not understand how any man can not see themselves in that predicament or do they just push it aside? It is not enjoyable when something is stressful and you can't relax. It's getting to the point where I will not have sex in the US I will only have sex in other countries such as Brazil or Colombia