You got a bad hand from the day you were born, you were born into a broken home or the world decided to fuck you over along the way. None cares. Work harder to make up for what you were dealth with and build resilience and antifragility along the way.
Social media today plays a fowl game on those who participates. I think most people can feel guilty over buying into comparing their shitty experiences to the glamourus lifes of the people who dominate social media platforms. People have the opportunity to compete socially on a platform where its users can take their attention and time and give it away in the form of a double tap with their fingers, all from the comfort of their sofa. This is playing a social game from evolution on steroids due to techonology.
Few minds are prepared for the feelings of inferiority that this serves you.
Responding to the feeling of being inferior due to the things you can't help, with giving up on something is a rationalization that leads to weakness. Weakness kills your masculinity.
If your response is to put in the time to make up for it, this will show next time such a weakness appears. Former drug-dealing, poor, black men from broken streets can build hip-hop music empires around themlseves. A man in a suit with paperwork and promises falls short in this game when the guy before him had a loaded gun.
"I can't use tinder because I was born with an ugly face".
Sub 10% bodyfat can compete with a good looking face and the work it takes to achieve can compete with the stress of finding a job. Working through your weaknesses will prepare your mind for the future.
