I used to see this girl back in the day (12 years ago). We only hooked up once. Because i was in a relationship at the time, with a baby on the way. She didn't feel right.
Fast forward to today, she started contacting me again, even went as far to confess how into me she was and wished i would have tried harder to keep her. Im married now, and she knows. She's even wanted to grab drinks, but i'm always busy. She's still damn attractive (seriously she models), but single at our age... red flag.
So, she's invited me to her birthday coming up. With all of her swanky friends... so my question >

I JUST WANT TO KNOW SHOULD I BRING A GIFT (bottle of champagne)???

Or should i just keep it G.... Show up hang and bounce.

Cliff notes: Do i want to fuck again - I think i do, but concerned of the fall out. Not from my wife, but from her. She's lonely. And may not give me the option to walk away this time?

Why a gift - Because i can. I always had a certain kinship with BIG from SITC. And just to floss in front of her fake model friends.

I figured MGTOW would give it to me straight, no chase.