If you want to change then you’re going to have to accept your status. It seems most here are alphas or want to. It’s a tough task. Takes a lot of moral pills to swallow, and the amount of negative situations that you’ll face will increase. That’s why most stop, and settle. Do you want to settle? Then stop yourself from propagating with self-development. Follow the anger to its disappearance by not expressing it over and over in the same ways thus perpetuating the problem. Sack up and wait for another alpha female that you can get some solid kids off and not have the divorce/child costs take you down. There will always be women it all comes down to the last one you choose. She’ll know when you really do.