We need more positivity

DJDickJob · 2018-09-11T15:31:28+00:00

Agreed. Too many boys bitching, not enough men having productive conversation.

Badthrowaway2928 · 2018-09-11T15:30:49+00:00

I'm not sure what you mean by success stories. I've been getting a weird vibe lately that there are guys here who I think are apart of this sub because they think there is an end goal to MGTOW.

What I mean by that is, it's like they think "By GYOW, you're eventually going to be more successful in life and will end up with everything you could ever want and women will chase you" kind of mentality.

This isn't a Tony Robbins self help group. You define your own success in life. If you are truly GYOW, then you already are a success. As success is a broad term and means something different to everyone.

Maybe there is someone here who always wanted to write a book and finally did. That's a success. Maybe there is someone here who practices MMA and won their first fight. That's a success. Bought a project car and built it up and is now driving it. That's a success. Launched their own business. That's a success. You get the idea.

I do however think the tides are turning. We have bros that are posting sweet ass pics of them doing their thing and their surroundings when they go places.

Like many other MGTOW have said before, be the change in the sub that you want to see. Don't wait for others to do something before finally deciding to fully jump in. Do it. Post it. You'll be better off for it. There are always going to be posts about women (whether positive or negative).

After all it is one of the core tenants of how MGTOW came to be in the first place. Some are using it as a cope, some are using it as a means to talk with like-minded guys, some are using it to showcase their hobbies as well as the double standards in life we face etc. And honestly I think that's also why we have people who end up leaving this sub. They think there should be this defined definition of what all this should be. When in reality MGTOW has a set of core values and ideas and it's up to the individual to apply them to their everyday life.

GYOW doesn't mean you have to do everything alone all the time. GYOW isn't implying you have to live a life of solitude and ex-communicate yourself off from the entire world.

Do what makes you happy. That's GYOW. And ironically enough, by doing that you will have found success.

oirectine00 · 2018-09-11T16:31:16+00:00

Woman need positivity. We need reality and truth.

sku009 · 2018-09-11T14:57:56+00:00

Yes, I agree with you.

There are so many subreddits for pussy, politics and other bullshit.

We need success stories. We have time , money and energy. We should use this for something good.

801735 · 2018-09-11T15:09:13+00:00

It's "accidental".

Incels and feminist and tradcuck agitators can't contain their envy so they come here to whine and bitch like ~~little~~grown up fully developed girls they are.

BoskOfPortKar · 2018-09-11T14:56:05+00:00

Agreed.

You are spreading negativity right here. I am joking.

2018-09-11T16:16:55+00:00

Indeed. I think I'll make a post later tonight about my hobbies and interests things other guys here might want to get involved with.

Title	We need more positivity
Author	Djokilliams
Upvotes	48
Comments	11
Date	September 11, 2018 2:35 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/9ey39c/we_need_more_positivity/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/we-need-more-positivity.494025 https://theredarchive.com/post/494025

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