Long story short, a girl from my blue pill days I hung out with. Played me like a fiddle, met up with her months after losing contact and touched base again, went out for a drink couple weeks ago, and was to me "Im sort of seeing this guy, hes my ex, but hes moving to Dubai, it looks pretty much certain he's moving."

So we spoke last night, and we spoke about going for a drink and I was being a bit flirty to which she goes "I don't think my boyfriend would like that"

Me "I dont care what anyone thinks. Oh whos that?"

Her "the guy who I told you about before"

Me "wasn't he supposed to leave?"

Her "yes, but it didn't pan out"

Me "wow thats, great, its sweet, he confessed he loved you, whether he was leaving or not, And look at you now! Completely together. Shows no matter what, he clearly values you very high, and needs to have you no matter what."

Her "yeah you are right!"

Me "def, however shows that he'd do almost anything for you. Could mean he's needy, but its not an issue"

Her "No no, yes he does care deeply, but he is very strong guy, no needyness for sure from him."

Me "Sure, he holds you in very high regard for sure."

Conversation ended there.

Next day she messages me asking if I fancied going for a drink.

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