Let’s be honest for a moment. Let’s calculate the “catch” of a guy every girl wants. This pertains to the US population

Makes $200,000> salary (1%)

Attractive (subjective) by cultural standards (10%)

Is taller than 6,2 ft (average height) (5%)

Has a big dick (where it is classified by where it starts - 7.0 length x 5.5 girth (0.17%)

327,000,000 population multiply by the factors of percentage above show that’s only 27.79 guys who have all those checks.

The takeaway of this is to just relax. Nobody is perfect, and the “catch” is not reality, it’s like being stuck in the matrix. Just do you and be the best you can be. Everything is going to be alright.