Women who get dumped might get upset but rarely do they ever learn their lesson. This seems to be a RP misconception that 'nexting' or 'soft nexting' a woman will magically bring her down to reality and show her the error of her ways. That by nexting her they will have her come running back to the guy or come to their senses. Good luck with that subjective reality. It's never going to happen. This is some kind of power fantasy RP bullchit I always see in Red Pill Married or The Red Pill. The same thinking is gynocentric. In that, it's how women play breakups. That's what women think when they dump men. But they play it better because they are backed by an entire society that is built to protect and support them.

The reality is, women rarely ever get brought down to reality because she's hardwired to solipsism and society supports her pedestalised image with open arms. So if you next her? She'll be upset and then she'll look for the next 'sucker'. Even post wall, there will be some desperate simp who will happily pedestalise her and that's why it's best to go your own way for yourself.

Case in point: My step sister just got dumped by her husband. He was sleeping with her friend. She was upset for a week. He told her she would never change. She was the first to cheat on him and he couldn't take being with an unloyal kunt anymore. Did she learn her lesson? No. She went shopping and is now talking to one of his friends. The smile on her face as she goes, "I got a date tonight." Suggests, 'Haha! I got another sucker!' 14 years relationship don't mean shit to women. All that matters to them is attention and an ability to maximise on resources.

No you don't next a woman for RP power fantasy in hopes of changing the relationshit. You next her to leave her behind and continue your journey free from the stress and bullchit of the ties that bind when being with a woman. You next her to get away. You never look back.

The woman that does come back? Is only seeking to win that power fantasy. Only to court and ensure she has your attention and access to your resources. And as she'll come back she'll also be looking for another desperate sucker on the side. An upgrade in terms of keeping up appearances.

A woman can always find a replacement because there is always a desperate simp to happily keep that pedestalised image of herself firmly in place. The best way to win, is to not play.