Warning: It Long.

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Vast and stark differences.

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I had 2 work friends. WE overworked. 10-16 hours A DAY.

over the 10 years we got to know everything about each other. We traded porn sites and stock tips. We played online games together.

It was literally like going to see my best friends everyday, and getting paid to do that and exercise.

Over 10 years, I watched both get divorced. One just a heartbreak/robbery classic, and at the end his only son turned out to be gay. I spent many a night drinking in tandem and Crying For him silently as he CRIED on the other end of the PHONE, blasted out of his mind.

The other buddies divorce was a world ending nightmare, complete with false accusations of child molestation, his kids being housed by the city and him forced to pay to visit, court cases to prove innocence. his car/truck tires being sliced and windows smashed and him asking me to walk him to his car. His wife developed cancer and lived, and he had to absorb 1 million dollars medical debt. Then her skipping town with the kids to half a country away, and us having to drive 17 hours 1 way to get them.

They have watched my relationships collapse under their own weight, stupidity, and me not having it, and they shook their head at me running, but they patted me on the back later - as I fled for safety every time.

One time they saved my life. After a particularly nasty breakup with what I discovered to be a cat-lady in the making hoarder. They were there like a bolt of lightning to move me out and save me from the cops and her family.

Once I said that I was leaving that bitch, she set me up, told lies, and had her whole family hiding in the house to beat my ass when I came home, and then planned to finish me off with a lying domestic violence call.

Me calling my buds early and keeping a cool head prevented all that. When the cops showed up to a domestic violence call, all they saw was me and my buds, carrying a couch, having a good time.

Saved me from an ass whooping, jail, and a life ruining accusation/court time.

Those two could call at any time, and I'd go running.

I recently gave one my old beater, as he was strapped for a ride and didn't know how he was going to get around, as he is still taking care of everyone. I miss my old car, but she is in good hands. And he needed one after the divorce.

about 5 years ago, we got old, tired, and a fight broke out between the boss and the two friends.

We all split up. We no longer work together be cause of the boss's greed, and those two guys infighting, one taking taking the bosses side and the other not.

So I left. I was tired of it all anyway. Too much work, not enough life. And I had let 10 years of my life get away without doing something different. So I wanted to change, and I did (Mgtow).

I still keep in touch with the two guys and the boss. I try to work with them, but its isn't the Same Family feeling.

The greed and time has broken it all.

I worked 10 years for 10-16 hours a day and didn't notice a day go by because I was happy.

I cant do that any more. Not that I would want to anyway.

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Now on to the replacement Losers.

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My Replacement Friends since that time have all been Married Fools and hot garbage. And this is the best of the best , trust me. Each sucking the wife's tit or being strung along despite all their macho talk and then getting secret divorces without telling anyone. Grown men straight acting like an ass for months until I just call them out and they collapse, saying "its all over shes divorcing me and taking the kid". I watch the others slink around in silence HOPING that shit doesn't happen to them.

One guy was unreliable as any change in his wife or son's body temperature meant he couldn't / wouldn't go out that day. Oh yeah his wife was cheating on him by being an escort on Backpage when that shit was still out and she tried leaving him for a convicted criminal she was talking to who WAS STILL IN THE PEN. The only reason she didn't leave? Her divorce settlement would leave her on section 8 with too little money to support her and her jailbird.

They are still together.

The same guy would plan an event to go to for all of use. Organize the trip/date, and then not show up to his own fucking outing - without even calling. He looked at me like I stabbed his child when I asked him "where the fuck were you? This is your outing."

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Another one just wanted to be friends with me because his $300,000 house, "give him sex everyday wife", stay at home mom with two kids, was SOMEHOW making him miserable. I visited his house twice and I felt like HE was the butler, And I was the butler's friend on the one night the help could have company. He told me he kept me as a friend because since I've been single and gone hoeing and swinging (i stopped, but they know I did it), that he "keeps me around because I know where all the pussy's at in case this marriage shit doesn't work out."

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I have gone from men with integrity that I trusted with my life and they had proved that they were trustworthy of it by having my back at the worst times, to "men" who were shadows of themselves and men in testicle having only. These men couldn't keep their word, wouldn't keep dates, didn't feel like they had to answer when called out on some bullshit. They couldn't be trusted to be where they said they were gonna be at the time they said they were gonna be - when THEY were the ones that set the original meeting. They would sell out a MONTH of planning for sex on the day of the meet. Meaning if the wife who never game them pussy dropped her draws on the one day he was supposed to come out and meet us, it was suddenly "aw man fells I cant make it, the wife..."

They were looking at me like I was crazy whenever I asked them why did they do this/that and then not show up? And they looked at me like I killed Jesus when I ask them did they know their bullshit wasted my time? My time is not theirs to waste! and they're be pussy-ass mumbling about me being an asshole or a jerk. I was starting to feel crazy. Until I dumped them.