How would one get a die hard purple pilller to stop chasing blue pill dreams? Anyone have a close relative or friend who they actually dont want to see destroyed by a bitch? Please read on

At the age of 21 Subject A was committed to prison for assaulting his childs mother. Now estranged from her and after a string of girlfriends, in his mid 30s he has another child with a woman who is 8 years younger than him. They currently have either broken up or are going through issues (i dont like to dig into people problems tbh,so not sure but i dont mind helping).

He is about 5'5 , 5'6? extroverted, average earner, doesnt mind violence as u have already gathered, he has even beaten up his gfs father in the past. Used to run in gangs as a youth, so he obviously is not passive hence why relationships are not smooth. But damn where do u start?

TL;DR: How do you introduce the red pill to family/friends who are purple pilled stuck in relationshits, without freaking them out too much.