I could use a little advice from TRP.

So, I've been married to my wife for a year now. Before the baby, she was a 9.5 smoke show, damn near perfect. I felt kinda beta after and felt like I had to let her marry me after I got her pregnant about a year and a half ago. We now have a 1 year old, who I love, but I'll be honest, don't like having around really. I really didn't want a kid cramping my style...they need a lot of shit.

Here's the dilemma. My wife and I haven't slept together since during about halfway through the pregnancy. She's 22, but man...having that baby put about 15 pounds, stretch marks, and loosened up her pussy. To put it frankly, I'm not interested. I've always slept with other women since I've known her (obviously), but she has recently gotten pushy for sex and has found out I'm cheating with my secretary. She found out this past Friday. I'm currently on business and out if town. I think I want to I divorce her by serving her and just not going back home. I could transfer branches and move to another location within a week logistically. Would this be unethical, or is this me feeling too attached and encumbered and it's clouding my judgement?