I've been on this SR for a few years now and it has improved my life. There's a lot of nonsense here but y'all (hopefully) know that.

One thing that is absolutely not nonsense though is 'do not shit where you eat'

I independently contract myself out to various people for my work and constantly have waiting lists of people to work with me. Normally I cut people off and end a project if they become ridiculous. For example, had this one girl I was working with last October who wound up being absolutely insane, so I cut her off and exported her project for others to finish. As I have a waiting list, I easily replaced her with higher paying and more sane customers.

What went wrong is this other girl I started working with in September. For some fucking retarded reason (don't think with your dick, boys) I wound up sleeping with her a few times in January and February. I was staying at her house since she wanted to work while I was in between housing and was gonna be in another state. Anyways - bitch tells me all of her problems and whatnot after one of the times and I very clearly do not give a fuck. However, since I was staying at her house I had interacted with her family and other mutual connections who came through during the few weeks I was there. She always acted for the next while as if I were supposed to be her emotional tampon because I had listened to her ONCE. I didn't put up with it and she continued to try and use me as an emotional tampon for nearly three months afterwards to no avail. Oh, also she revealed her depression during that one time which previously I didn't know about since we just had a working relationship and not a personal one at all.

So she winds up sleeping with her manipulative and beta ex and bringing him into work sessions. After he is beyond rude to one of my former male customers - I say I don't want him around anymore and she admits that he's bad for her health. Literally bitch gets more depressed when he's around but she can't stay away. Don't stick your dick in crazy. She starts (doesn't finish cause I don't listen to the garbage after 60 seconds) to complain to me - a person who just stopped sleeping with her because she's too much - while at work sessions. She starts to blame everything but herself for her issues and refuses to get any help besides the drugs her doctor gives her. Whenever the bitch had a breakdown over the few months I knew her, her doctor would just switch the drugs she was on. It was literally making her worse.

So I go to her house last week to finish her project once and for all so I don't have to deal with her ever again. All goes well and we're ahead of schedule first day. So she goes out to a movie theater (with a tinder boy working at the theatre she left for me back in January then went back to cause he thirsty) and comes back at 1am in full depressed breakdown mode with the tinder dude. I'm woken up because she 'needs to talk about it's and proceeds to say how 'i think my meds are wrong. I need a new medicine probably I called my doctor' REFUSING to acknowledge her actual issues or consider that the drugs aren't god. Anyways I go to bed after about five minutes of her spouting and she goes to her room with the tinder dude (who's a virgin btw - was literally there as an emotional tampon).

Two days later she asks if her ex can come to help finish the project. I said no because he had been extremely rude to my coworkers before and always is a bad vibe in the workplace. MY workplace. So the next day I wake up and she isn't in her room. I walk to the kitchen and her fucking ex is there against what I said. I finish the project that day, leave on my flight, and have not spoken or responded to her since.

The point of saying all this is that I couldn't separate myself from her as soon as I saw the crazy because I was already in a work arrangement with her. We already had contracts. I had to finish her project and unlike the girl who i cut off in October - this one I would be making a big cut from the final product. If I had kept it a strictly work relationship I wouldn't have seen all the fucking crazy and probably would have been able to finish the project way earlier.

Tl;Dr: Was contracted to work with girl. After fucking she turned out to be insane. Couldn't cut her off because of contract. Was depressed and thought pills were how you cure depression. Disobeyed me for her beta ex after I stopped fucking.

Best wishes boys! Don't make the same mistakes. Not nearly as bad as the marriage nightmares posted here but still was a trash experience.