Need Advice. Does it Look like Cheating or no?Advice (self.survivinginfidelity)

submitted 5 hours ago by kay1970707

Long story short my wife (29F) and me (33M) (Married for 5 years, together for 8) separated back in September 2018. There's a huge story to this and if anyone wants details I'll give them, but for now I'll stay on topic.

Before she left on September 17th me and my friend were going on an overnight hiking trip on labour day weekend. She kept repeatably asking if I was actually going. Then she started to accuse me of monitoring her whole I was away, or having someone check up on her. Obviously I was not doing either. I told her that those that worry about such things usually have something to hide. She got angry and stated "this is why I don't say anything. I knew you would turn it around on me. I was more or less asking how you were going to survive up there being away from your family"?

I went anyway because I trusted her. Than a couple Weeks later she left. She called her parents and said her and my son were in danger because of me. (not the case at all). Her parents came took my son and her and left. No call from anyone asking wtf is going on nothing!

So as the months go by I start to search everything. I find old phones and an old laptop. On the phones she was using whatsapp which I never knew about. All the messages were deleted. She used what looked to be a galleryvault app that can hid itself within the phone and have no icon show up. (Android). I root one of the phones and found a picture of what looks like her with some other dude in a diner.

As I dig and dig I find that she used Facebook messanger a lot after agreeing not to use it because 2 years prior I caught her messaging an old boyfriend from high school behind my back.

I have found skype logs that show her on skype during times I was at work. I found old internet. Cookies from match.com on her old laptop as well as images (banners, logos) from Ashley Madison.

Where my frustration lies is that she covered her tracks real well and changed her passwords to her email accounts quite a few times while we were still together. I never knew she did this. We were supposed to know each other's passwords Becuase honesty and blah blah.

Now I'm in court fighting for custody of my son who's only 20 months old. In her court documents she has accused me of everything from being addicted to porn, alcohol, to sexually abusing her.

I was able to get the sexual abuse alligations dropped because I had proof they were false.

Anyways what do you guys think? Am I looking for something that isn't there? Or would it be proof enough for you that she was cheating if you were in my situation.

Please serious responses only.

Thank you everyone :) ---end of the post

Even after everything she did the dude is not in condition to be assured that his wife is a whore, imagine how much manipulated this guy was during the marriage, I bet the kid is not his, he was just the cuck she choose to be a beta bucks. btw I cant post in the surviving infidelity sub I think because of mgtow and the donald subs... reddit is a complete joke