Does anybody else just not care about sex or relationships?

2018-08-21T21:31:21+00:00

Sounds like you have a well developed cerebral cortex with strong control over your limbic desires. Lucky you

protonexus1 · 2018-08-21T21:37:53+00:00

Ditto. The fantasies of relationships and sex were very appealing in my youth, once I explored the reality everything in my mind changed. Eventually even porn and masturbation became unappealing. I never seemed to have as strong of sexual urges as my fellow males growing up, or my willpower and reason circuits vastly overpowered those urges. I've always been quite stoic and robotic.

DangZagnut · 2018-08-21T21:42:50+00:00

Women. Meh.

You still seem stuck is a “I should have one” mode from societal programming.

You never have to justify having a woman, because it implies you’re supposed to have one.

throwaway12394847 · 2018-08-21T21:51:12+00:00

It gets easier to eliminate that urge as you get older. Guys in their late teens and twenties are still fighting against raging testosterone levels and wanting to fuck anything with two legs and a hole.

somuchluv2give · 2018-08-21T21:53:33+00:00

Actually I love sex and for the most part loved having a girlfriend. I was much happier with life and much more motivated. I was definitely a better person back then. But it’s just not worth it because all the work u put in to build with a girl is a total waste and no matter what u do or how good u are she will cheat and or leave. So now I’m just alone, with no real motivation towards anything, I’m selfish, I use women only for sex (that’s all they have to offer) and I just go to the gym everyday. Sometimes I party and do drugs. Anyway it’s a pretty empty life and I resent the Jews and women for forcing this me into this position. I don’t even reallly care about money what do I need it for? To buy a house and fill it with a buncha shit I don’t need ?

2018-08-21T22:40:03+00:00

Yes, we exist.

2018-08-22T07:07:01+00:00

relationships: in my early 20's, thought i had found the one and she slept with my best friend. got serious about another girl, but found out later she was just using me for emotional support. plus observing all the generally shitty behavior by women does not offer much motivation to be in a relationship.

sex: i've had serious depression my whole life = being pretty much sexually dead, so overall i'm pretty indifferent about it. and since i was not thinking about sex so much i found other things to do with my time.

MGTOW-Balance · 2018-08-21T21:49:14+00:00

yeah i still like banging bitches, but long-term relationshits no way

notreallybeingme · 2018-08-21T22:20:55+00:00

I enjoyed relationships and sex. My moment of truth came while I was separated from my wife: I discovered that my life had become exceedingly more complicated since I started dating and that I didn’t understand why wanted to continually complicate my life with their bullshit

I mean what was I really getting? Pussy every couple weeks? Once a month? Whenever she wanted to have sex

Eidos13 · 2018-08-22T00:26:35+00:00

Relationships are unappealing but I still have that edge I need to get rid of.

2018-08-22T02:37:55+00:00

Mostly, yeah.

Spring time tends to mess with my biology a bit and I generally plough through a few girls during that season but otherwise I'm focussed on my work for the most part

Older_Miggy · 2018-08-22T03:21:50+00:00

For me a relationship was appealing, so much so that I was willing to jump through all kinds of hoops in order to find that special one.

Due to one continuous disaster after another though, I finally realized I was too old to put myself through those hoops. My time, money and energy could be spent on better things.

So it means I kiss sex goodbye unless I go visit an escort. Meh. Whatever. I'm too busy working on stuff now to care.

SleepyMethHead · 2018-08-22T05:52:03+00:00

Less and less as the time goes bro.

WanderlustYouth · 2018-08-22T12:25:26+00:00

I never wanted to have sex and I never will, same thing for relationships

McPiggy · 2018-08-22T13:54:42+00:00

It’s simple: focus on earning the amount of money you need to live the life that you want. Getting into a relationship can stymie this goal, so a relationship is a nonstarter here.

After these two imperatives are followed, whether you LOVE sex, or love sky diving, doesn’t matter. You will have the funds and the mindset to do either as often as you’d like.

So of the two things you mentioned: sex and relationships, only one is something that ought to be avoided, as it is the only one that can impact your ability to do other things, and that is relationships. Almost anything else you want or need in life, money can get you. Including sex.

heemy32 · 2018-08-22T15:44:55+00:00

Same with me, it's not that I don't think women are attractive. I just do t have a desire to have sex with them or date. I'm 17 yrs old and most of my peers are obsessed with the idea of a girlfriend and/or sex

Mefic_vest · 2018-08-22T20:02:23+00:00

As I stand on the precipice of my 50s, I would have to agree with your sentiment.

When I was younger my gonads held sway, but then again I was lucky to have found a near-nawalt who treated me very well until death did us part.

These days? Nope. Not going to jump back in even if you paid me. I love solitude, and have no issue rubbing one out if the need arises.

Bestoftherest222 · 2018-08-21T23:54:30+00:00

Sex is very important to me, however it isn't as important as my dignity and time. Ideally I'd put in the same time I fuck a woman as I do listening to her bullshit.

Because of this its been hard for me to stay in relationships and as of late the young thot game as been my outlet.

Before mgtow my mind in terms of females was the same but mgtow gave me a means to understand why I think the way I do. I can never understand putting up with the emotional work most women demand of a lover. If I'm not fucking the female why do I need to put up with her?

Title	Does anybody else just not care about sex or relationships?
Author	Melodic_Classical
Upvotes	42
Comments	22
Date	August 21, 2018 9:27 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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