I’ve been married almost 9 years, together for 13. We have three wonderful children. I was blindsided by an affair my wife was having with my good friend. I had no idea.
Last year I bought her the house of her dreams, and a new Polaris rzr just before this happened. I never knew anything was up.
One night, she went to have dinner with a friend, and didn’t say she loved me when she left, which was very unusual. We always kissed goodbye before I went to work, and always said we loved each other before we went our separate ways. I looked in find my friends, and seen she was at his house. I called to ask what was going on, and she said we need to talk when we get home.
Fast forward 3 months later, and I’m sitting here, without my family in an empty home. I’ve been medicated, and seeing a therapist once a week. And it’s helped.
I’m going to lose my family and be financially ruined. I’m looking at 4700-5100/month in child care and alimony. Even with 50/50 custody.
She shows no remorse for what she’s done, and I’m terrified to see her when we meet to pick up the kiddos.
I don’t know what’s going to happen next. I’m just scared, and destroyed. People say life goes on, but this was my life. I lived for my family.
[–]SaltTax22 points23 points24 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Pay attention kids. Can confirm that they're all like this. Not just with men but with everyone. Even their own children. It's scary shit.
[–]BoskOfPortKar8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep. Praying mantis at work.
[–]westnblue17 points18 points19 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Once a girl knows she's got you its a licence to abuse
[–]cobaltcolander3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
And AWALT
[–]Global_MGTOW10 points11 points12 points (1 child) | Copy Link
He's going to pay his ex wife $5,100 a month in child support, to sleep with his ex friend and eventually, several other people. That's not even including alimony. This guy is so fucked, honestly, his best bet is to flee the country and start over somewhere else.
We all know this isn't going to happen though, he's going to go broke, he won't see his kids as much and he'll eventually commit suicide, SAD!
[–]october-ru2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
She’s probably been doing even prior to the divorce but the husband compensated her with the house, car, luxuries. Food, financial support ..
[–]pepe_the_third5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
inb4 they ban him from offmychest
[–]heheRue5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
That's marriage.
[–]BoskOfPortKar5 points6 points7 points (1 child) | Copy Link
I used to give those guys hints (messaging them) about MGTOW until I got flagged for "harassment".
Now, I just let social Darwinism do the work. Or not.
[–]cobaltcolander2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I still try to contact these dudes. I can't help but feel like they're my brothers in a lopsided war.
[–]cobaltcolander4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
He is divorceraped, now it's only going to get worse - spiked dildo-style.
[–]MGTOW-Balance4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
awww shucks, after reading all these failed marriage stories i'm gonna go get married my damn self
i mean it sounds like loads of fun going through all that fucked up shit
yeah i can't wait!
anyone want invites?
[–]Yasai1014 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel for this guy, I bet he feels completely hopeless. From being happy and thinking everything is great to having no rope to hang on to while the system and people around him letting him fall.
That is why you think long term, always think long term. That is a reason enough to never marry or have kids because you never know what the other person will be in 5 or 10 years.
[–]october-ru2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
5 grand a month is wild man That’s 2.5 times amount of the average American monthly income earning.
[–]PEDE_CENTI0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Hope he comes here
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Cannot message him and invite him here? maybe we can help him.He really need it.