I feel like a fucking loser for being a virgin at 17. I don't even want a relationship. I've never had a girlfriend.

2019-02-28T12:06:24+00:00

That will change dude. You are only just now coming into what will be your character. This kind of negative self talk isn't productive. Hit the gym, read a book, hang out with people of character, do work you are proud of.

DangZagnut · 2019-02-28T12:11:39+00:00

I didn't "lose my virginity" until I graduated high school.

Who cares? If the average age for virginal loss was 30, would you feel upset?

You know the difference between masturbating, and masturbating inside a woman is zero.

So you have nothing to stress over.

yay! A gurlfriend. then what?

NightOuts · 2019-02-28T12:12:09+00:00

dont feel pressured by society.

H1v3-m1nd · 2019-02-28T12:13:38+00:00

Don’t feel ashamed for not having sex.

swankvagabond · 2019-02-28T12:16:28+00:00

Having a girlfriend doesn't make you a winner. Having sex doesn't make you a winner.

You can pay a hooker to fuck and still it won't make you a winner. It's all about getting your needs satisfied on your own terms.

Whether you're 19, 30 or 60, one day you'll realize that sex isn't a big deal and nothing change.

PrinceRaj53 · 2019-02-28T12:20:42+00:00

By your logic, I should die because I'm 18 and a virgin, right?

I'm an Indian and The following is part of my culture as well, thats how I am able to follow it, but let me share this :

Being a virgin means you have standards. It means, you are not going to trade your self respect, dignity and reputation just to get a chance to penetrate a vagina.

You don't need to prove your manhood by fucking a chromosomal variant dude. Prove your manhood by doing things YOU like in life. Self-improve, self analyze, self actualise, and become the best version of yourself while maintaining your standards and respected moral values and continue rhe philosphical individual lifestyle that you live.

Always remember that your self respect, your dignity and your reputation (that you worked hard to earn) will always matter more than anything else. Don't loose these. Be the best man you can be without trading the values you have as a man.

S1ck0m0d3 · 2019-02-28T12:17:39+00:00

Dude I'm nearing 40, I wish I was a virgin. Women are just a headache in heels. Have a beer when you're of legal age wherever you're from. 🍻

Most_Insane_F2P · 2019-02-28T12:26:50+00:00

17??

Not so long ago "people were forced to marry" in order to have sex.

Maybe start worrying when you're past 25. And even then, it's hardly worth the effort.

2019-02-28T12:32:56+00:00

Im 23 and wish I was a virgin still. I lost mine at 17 because I was pressured by society and my friends... but I had no connection with the girl, she was blonde hair blue eyed little dime, you would think I had a great time? Wrong, I felt disgusted with myself after. I tried casual sex about 4 times more with different girls after this encounter....but it left me with the same feeling.... Disgust.

I thought... damn, maybe im a serious relationship type of guy, so I get in one that lasts me 10 months with non suspecting girl from good home and family, only to have her cheat on me with a coke dealer thug type on christmas. I was then at war with my longing for a serious long term relationship vs degenerate hookup culture.... only to come to the conclusion that MGTOW is the only way.

I could have saved myself some real trouble and self respect for myself if I never gave into societal pressures to lose my virginity and date. Its actually pretty overated without a connection or unless if you got true chad genetics that makes you have no problem having women instinctually submit to you because of infatuation. .. then giving you the facade of deep connection during sex but its only really because shes getting dicked down by a chad lol.

Youre no loser bro, you just feel pressured right now, been there. I cant convince you to not feel like this. Honestly if youre so obsessed with losing your virginity, then hire a good looking escort and fuck her brains out.... I bet you will see what I mean by overrated and useless without a connection, but to each their own...... or if youre too good for that, wait until you hit bar age ( 19 where I live, idk about you ) because mostly all girls ( especially sheltered by parents ones ) go fucking crazy with their first taste of freedom and the bar/club scene. You might have good luck then. Dont say I didnt warn you though.

CharlesKin · 2019-02-28T12:23:45+00:00

You will stay a virgin as long as you keep reading this sub.

Title	I feel like a fucking loser for being a virgin at 17. I don't even want a relationship. I've never had a girlfriend.
Author	wNNNNNNNNNbc
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Comments	16
Date	February 28, 2019 12:02 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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