So over the course of my life, (in my early 30s now)

Some big relationships conclusions I have made

  1. If I ever get married, take vows between me and the girl, don’t involve the government or the church since I am not Christian. Don’t get married in the legal sense.

  2. 3 serious relationships over a 10 year period, towards the end of that I questioned monogamy for he first time, and felt like making relationships exclusive created more problems and unhappiness than happiness, thoughts, maybe non-monogamy, open relationships, polyamory will be worth a try in the future.

  3. Children, no real desire to have children get married with one girl and settle down and live happily ever after. There’s enough children already and if I will involve any in my life I’d rather adopt a poor Indian child or help in other ways.

Then I met MGTOW, and spent 5 minutes googling what red pill meant as kept hearing about it.

So here I am, please post your story how you found this movement.

By feelings by the way are not out of anger, more out of a personal quest for my own happiness, one with a more realistic balance of power than what society currently gives