I understand america is sexually repressed and has roots in fundamental Protestant/Puritan culture from the 1600's (some bizarre Protestant sects would literally CASTRATE male members because they believed sex was evil). But imagine a culture where playing the guitar is "cool" for a man. Yet the men in that society are never taught how to play the guitar but taught how to play the tuba because the "guitar is evil" However people make fun and say: "why can't men play the guitar? they are dweebs"
This is PSYCHOTIC! to expect one to fulfil your wants without telling/training them.
In parts of Mexico/Hispanic cultures schools have "dating classes" men are taught how to dance, dress well, be sociable, be "machismo", and even how to sexually please a woman, and have a skill (usually taught by the father-to son). The ladies are taught to be feminine etc.) Hispanic guys in America seem to live well and have good sex lives.
Contrast to white-Protestant America men and women are raised to avoid each other and be studious (but usually in useless skills like theoretical algebra, morality, religion, english essay writing etc). This type of study is VERY time consuming. Most men at the end are too EXHAUSTED to date. YET women expect us to act like a Latino man who was TRAINED his whole life to appeal to women.
-its downright PSYCHOTIC! (i mean i guess you would have to be pretty psychotic to be Pilgrim in 1600's America anyway so I guess the apple does not fall to far from the tree we are the descendants of psychos who were kicked out of England/Germany).
