How do you deal with having a friend who’s prettier than you?

2,898 points•730 comments•submitted by sonnyandrain to r/TwoXChromosomes

I don’t have any ill feelings for this friend as me and her have been close for a long time. But lately I’ve been struggling with comparing myself with her and almost going to the doctor to get facial enhancements (botox, filler, etc). I know I shouldn’t feel this way but I just do, it’s something I can’t help. People always tell her she’s pretty around me and I’m always on the sideline feeling a little left out. I don’t think I’m ugly or anything like that but lately I’ve been struggling with self consciousness and have been less confident in myself. I’m really hoping this is just a phase and I will snap out of it. Anyone else been thru this before? Side note: Also sorry if the header sounds a little vain, I didn’t know how else to word it.

Edit: I just checked reddit to find that this post completely blew up. I didn’t expect the overwhelming response to my post, but i’d just like to thank everyone for leaving a reply. Some of you can relate and some have actually found a way to overcome this feeling, so thank you all for sharing your experiences with me. I feel like this is something that will take time to get over but i’ll keep everything you guys have said in mind throughout this process. I’m so thankful for reddit and this wonderful community. Also huge thank you to the person who gave me the medals, I’m extremely grateful.