Are other people going to notice and be envious of them (him). Do they provide me with the kind of "look" I want to have? I have no intrinsic value to her other than an accessory she can brag about to other women (her mother). She tries me on for a while and when I no longer suit her needs or she is told I don't (by other women) she throws me to the back of the closet or out into the trash for a new pair and she is constantly shopping until the day she dies. That is why dates seem like job interviews. She is asking questions about the product before she purchases it with her vagina currency. The product is not to ask questions of the purchaser unless he's Chad/Brad/Brent. They are always the golden shoe. And if they know it, it's called confidence. It took me 30 years to see this and realize...I've never really had a relationship with a woman. Just a temporary pair of shoes. I may last a week, 3 months, 5 years.