I havent seen him in a long time but yeah basically his ex fucked him over and quit the relation via long distance on the phone. He got a new girlfriend instantly... So kinda reverse hypergamy. But ever since then i felt like he was damaged. We couldnt talk like normal people anymore. Whenever he brought up a topic it would be about pussy and i would see how he invests 99% of his time into pussy and 1% into his friends.

So his ex wants to drink a coffe after she treated him like dogshit and he says yes. Do i need to say anything else? There are a lot of men these days with zero self respect. How can you invest into that person over a friend. Thats the problem right there.

My exes asked the same after a couple months/years and i always said no. They can go to hell, they know why.