I wish i could think about things other than sex but i just fucking cant

FordGourde · 2019-02-24T18:25:45+00:00

Wrong sub.

purplecactai · 2019-02-24T18:23:30+00:00

Its true it is pleasurable, but what is physical pleasure? Its short-term. Dont spend your time setting yourself up for short-term pleasures that dont get you anywhere. Spend your time developing yourself, and reap the benefits continuously throughout your life.

2019-02-24T18:51:52+00:00

If it has that much of a toll on you mentally, why not take a more logical route: Hookers. Don't give me that it feels wrong, that is just social conditioning. Its a feasible transaction, isn't it?

PrinceRaj53 · 2019-02-24T19:14:11+00:00

Uh so your sexual drive is way off the charts now and you need something (a hole) to release it.

Maybe you are coming across as phony, because you are thinking about fucking them but trying to pretend not to care about sex when you interact with them?

Maybe you should think about how badly you want to fuck those "hot women" (used up vaginas basically), while you're chatting with them. You should communicate exactly that to them honestly through eye contact and playful banter? And then maybe something will happen between you and them (if they give off good vibes)? This seems to happen a lot in the west as the culture there encourages women to be whores and sluts (C'mon, why do you think they join dating apps? Mostly to find a fuckbuddy).

What you are having is normal at your age (I have not reached 22 yet, but hey, knowledge is power). Since you want to fuck some women so badly, you should use that desire. Don't be ashamed and don't try to change it for the sake of others or society. Take that sexual drive and use it to push yourself to walk up to every hot woman you see. Look right in her eye and give her that "I wanna fuck you" look. Use that desire to feel her by touching her in socially acceptable ways - show that you're a free and open minded person when you are around them.

To be honest, it's natural to often think about sex when your hormones are high ans specially when you see a "hot & attractive" chromosomal variant. At your age, it's a sign of a (mostly) high sex drive. You need to expect, and want to have sex - that's a good thing and women love it when you're straightforward about your intentions and they feel desired. They don't want the "nice guy" beta type of person pretending to not want sex when it's obvious that you only want that from her. But you also need to be able to accept rejection. Adopt a mindset of "this is what I'm trying to do, but if it doesn't happen, it's no big deal; I'll just try again another time." This doesn't only apply to sex, it applies to almost everything in life. Getting extremely frustrated or depressed over things doesn't help you out at all, and if you act butthurt over something like this, it's only going to hurt your future chances. You can be rejected by a girl at one point and then sleep with her a few weeks or months or even years down the road. But if you act like a jerk, you're probably never getting another chance with her. She will remember how you acted and think you're a child.

Till now I was talking about how you can use your drive. But to be honest, there is an alrernative, if you can manage it. Why not use that energy to do something productive and beneficial to your life rather than thinking about sex all the time? If you really think sex is the best thing in your life, then I would say thats not a life, thats a burden and a waste of energy. You are a slave of your own mind. Instead of having control over your own self, you are letting your urges to control you. Thats not going to be beneficial in the long run. People get cucked because of this kind of nature.

I'm going to share links to some posts, hopefully you will get the message :

https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/atbb5b/social_mastery_with_quiet_confidence/

https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/atumh8/important_aspects_of_selfimprovement/

I will also recommend you to read "The Rational Male" and "48 Laws of Power" . These two books should help you as well.

Itiswrittenkjv1611 · 2019-02-24T18:49:08+00:00

It's much more pleasurable being free. It's much more pleasurable having direction in life and becoming your own boss. Applying your talents each day to your dreams and passions. Helping others is a much greater fulfillment as well rather than selfish pleasures. Don't waste your time and energy envying fools.

JohnMcCainToHell · 2019-02-24T18:56:02+00:00

Find a pro you can carry on a long term mutually beneficial relationship with together. The sex will be amazing and you will get your needs met without the encumbrances of having an actual relationship.

801735 · 2019-02-24T19:05:26+00:00

I have a lot of hot women in my city, Milan.

Italian chicks,... they MUST look that good, because once they open their mouth,... just... wow. Obnoxious. I'd rather feed an obese glutton until she can't eat anymore than be around one of those "beauties".

Tercalerc · 2019-02-24T19:10:59+00:00

If sex is the best thing you've experienced in life...

You have no life.

ProfessionalBill9 · 2019-02-24T19:11:58+00:00

easy fix, walk up to a woman and try to talk to her. She'll blow you off, then you try a few more times and sooner or later you realise: They give no shit about you. Once your pride is hurt, your boner should shut down

LiveTheTruth321 · 2019-02-24T19:40:56+00:00

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://scottjeffrey.com/sexual-energy-transmutation/&ved=2ahUKEwji8LP0j9XgAhVDMqwKHUTkCFAQFjAIegQIAhAB&usg=AOvVaw2CV_otBMPE68yYdUVZctAh

https://sex-transmutation.net/sex-transmutation-benefits/

http://www.sacred-texts.com/nth/tgr/tgr16.htm

selfism_mike · 2019-02-24T20:51:54+00:00

How do you know everyone has great sex? Your unjustified assumptions are driving you crazy.

Most people are lonely and unfulfilled, so this is normal. So you are normal. Start with that and relieve some of the pressure you are under.

Biology is not our friend, it coerces us daily into slavery. Think about what you liked to do as a kid before your hormones got the better of you and try step by step to reconnect to that and build your adulthood around this. Rediscover the nature of your individuality.

The urges, the loneliness (at least bouts of it) will never completely leave you, except if you are a natural asexual. Even if you meet your dream woman and get married to her and have a family chances are your expectations fueled by your desperate biology will never be met, at most just very temporarily, and if this is the worst that happens to you, then you are very lucky.

Every couple I know is unhappy: the women because it is in their nature, the men because nature lied to them. The only ones who are halfway content are so because they have surrendered to the inevitable.

I experienced a few people die of old age. Every single one was disappointed by their life, having never experienced the love and affection they had hoped to achieve.

Title	I wish i could think about things other than sex but i just fucking cant
Author	thequenpercent
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	February 24, 2019 6:19 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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