I got to know a girl in one of my classes, maybe 6/10. Only good part of her was her ass. We starting talking and I got her number. Later after school is over I text her and ask if she wants to come over. She says yes, picks a date and all is going well. On the actual day however she starts to flake out, I ask her what her address is so I can pick her up and she says “Actually I have some stuff to do around the house, can you pick me up a few hours later” I say whatever, I spent the time going to the gym. Later she texts again saying it might be a little longer. I respond with “Look, come or don’t waste my time” After that she hits me up a bunch of texts giving me all the times she can hang out, tomorrow, the next day, the day after that. And asks me when I’m available. And then she writes a paragraph long apology about how she’s so sorry she couldn’t come.

When girls see a guy start to lose interest that they thought they had, they start to give you what you want. She got attracted to the strength and me not putting up with it.

I could’ve been super polite and just brushed off the fact that she was busy, but that would’ve gotten me no where. If she flakes out again I’m done, my time is valuable, if I’m going to give it to a girl she needs to give me something too.