Hey MGTOWs I need some advice. It might be a little long so I apologise in advance.

It seems my father has chosen his wife over me. A nasty woman who has had her first lot of kids taken off of her because she abused them (even sexually but they couldn't prove it.)

Ever since my father has been with her, he's gone down hill (7 years.)

Recently, it started when I lent my dad's wife's daughter (and her partner) $500 to get an house because she faced homelessness. She was cheeky to ask me because she knew I had money. But I lent her it because I didn't want her on the doorstep of my dad's house (my dad hates her as she always drains them of money.) I even said she could keep $100 of it for Christmas and she only owed me $400.

It's been 4 months and she hasn't paid me a single penny. Despite having a job and having money going out partying, she always says "I can't afford to pay it so it'll be next month."

I was fuming. What was even more of a surprise is her and her mother have been lying to my dad. Saying that I said she could pay it anytime she wanted. And that her mother (my dads wife) has seen the texts where I said that. I didnt.

Despite my dad seething and being pissed off with her daughter it seems he has chosen his wife. I said i had no other choice but to take her daughter to small claims court. And she overtly showed her nastiness to me. Being spiteful everytime I was at their house. Being snarky. And I just couldn't deal with biting my tongue anymore so I snapped to my father I said I can't deal with the disrespect anymore and told him how I felt about his wife.

The same same wife who was telling me and others that she doesn't have sex with my dad anymore and they are just like room mates. The same wife who claims disability but has nothing wrong with her. Won't even cook my father a meal. And now has a car so she feels like she doesn't need my father anymore.

BTW the daughter has all her letters come to his house. And bailiffs threatening to take all my father's stuff away as she's linked their house as her home address. Also can see the bank statements which prove that she has had money.

With all the drama from my dad's wife and her recent disrespect to my father by saying "Its her house and she doesnt care if they break up" I absolutely refused to go around the house. I took myself out of the equation for my sanity. I guess I will have to write off the debt too.

It seemed my father was on my side. But today he has been sucking up to his wife. And he's been indoctrinated into her frame of thinking. He thinks I shouldn't take her daughter to small claims court. He thinks im over reacting. When the other day he was just as angry as I was. Yesterday he was saying how he wasn't talking to his wife. And yet today he's taking her grandkids (The kids he says he dislikes because they have no manners) out for the day with her and acting like none of its happened.

I have now blocked him. I can't deal with this lack of loyalty. Am I wrong in doing so? I'm so fucking pissed that my father is acting like a pussy. I refuse to be disrespected everytime I go to their house.

Her birthday is coming up and I bought her tickets to go see a musician she liked. I also took them both on holiday. Not once did she even say thanks. I think am I wrong to cut my father out for his lack of loyalty? He hasn't even bothered to call since that.