I noticed that a lot of times I met women who had some issues. It turned out those issues, mainly low self-confidence, decreased, they got more confident, but once they reached a certain level, they dumped me. Every time I built them up, helped them with whatever issue they had(I wanted to have a woman around I would enjoy and someone complaining all the time is not enjoyable for me) they dumped me. And women that ARE self confident don't care about me.

I feel abused. I feel abused as a means to an end and for good, self-confident women I am never good enough. Only for the ones with issues.

Every time I meet a self-confident woman, she doesn't take me seriously or just develops no interest in me whatsoever.

It's like women with self-confidence-issues settle for less(me) and once they become more self-confident because of techniques I show them, I am not good enough any more.

The more I thought about what society wants me to do(build her confidence up, support her) the less I realized the benefit for me. Because a women that remains low-self-confidence in my surround might drag me down but also not all of a sudden think she was better than me.

What am I likely doing wrong exactly?