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So today was soccer world final and as such I went to a bar. I got a shitty table so after a while I notice some table was speaking my language and I went and introduce myself and ask if I can sit there.

One guy of the guys, who physically was not white European was really nice to me (lets called it "the arab"). During the match, he was saying the most racist stuff on black peoples in the national team. I didn't expect him to do that given his hypotetical origins be but he still he did make a lot of remarks about African-French players.

At some point I stole him a small cigar because he had 15 of them and didn't listen when I asked for one... and when he noticed I was smoking one he make me apologies like I was shit, I shouldn't do that, blablabla. I started to a feel a bad vibe about him.

At some point he was speaking to one of the three girls (the fatest one) how he was bullied in high school and I say something about it to relate. He got kinda mad about it and said I shouldn't use the world "outcast" (or some synonyms) about this situation. In summary, he try to relate to the girl history by excluding everyone else. I make a point to avoid him given how his motivation was to fuck this random girl at the cost of beeing in fight with everybody else.

After a while I went to a table of people of the country I'm living in. They told me how gypsies are ruined it and how women are not women any more (LMAO, I aggree). I spend a lot of time speaking with them even if could just speak English and they didn't know it well, it was great talk. A some point I saw a dude had a bleeding hear. We won the final, and no one of the slavs people where there to fight so I found it strange. After 5 minutes I understood that the arab guy hit himt

I try to stop more fiight hapenning, and it kinda workds but not because of me. After a while, 2 of 3 girls left and I asked them why why because the slavs guys asked me to ask. I got on the dryest answer of my life and it remind me why I usually don't speak with women of my country.

Then my slav comrads started bichithing about arab guy, how he was pretentious, not even European looking, how he did that and that that and a lot of things I didn't even notice because I didn't even gave a shit about him any more. After that they all quit without even paying everthing they order and we had to pay more...

Summary - being cool to outsider is cool and can boost your social value - until everybody understand its fake and you physically hit someone to prove you are someone - if you're a jerk, everybody will get it. Even people not speaking your language - you got every man against you and don't even fuck any of the girl in the end, what the point of it?

My take-away: I was too much of a nice guy. I should have teamed with the bleeding guy to punch the hell of out this arab guy and teach him that respect is not about dominating people. I know that the other people of this country wouldn't have minded because they thought he was a dick even without understanding anything of what he said. You want to fuck? Ok, everybody does but don't alienate every other guy for that purpose.