Just headed over to Dead Bedrooms and all I see now is posts from women complaining about their lack of sex lives. Of course you also get these kind of posts.

It used to be a place for 'mostly men' to cry for help on their sex lives which was eye opening and forewarning for my early MGTOW days as to why marriages are shit. But the advice men got on there was typical shaming. Of course it was always his fault. He needed to change.

But now women use it as a soap box to rationalise their female hamster. Posts mostly go like this:

Lately I’ve been uninterested. I haven’t initiated sex with him and have been keeping more to myself. I was inspired by a comment another redditor made here yesterday so I asked SO to make a list of the things he needs in a relationship to feel fulfilled.

He never responded to that but said “I put $200 in the account for you to spend on yourself. You deserve it”

Despite the female hamster, it seems a majority of these women's boyfriends are just tired of them. They seem deflated from most likely being nagged at. The interesting part is it now seems to be a place where women post about how they got overweight after the honeymoon phase and their boyfriends won't fuck them. As you expect they get championed and told not to change:

My wife gained 200 (yes HUNDRED) pounds in the last couple years, and I still want her on the daily. 30 pounds? Fuck that. Unless you're like 2'2", it's probably not that big a deal and he's making excuses.

Not that it was a predominately a male space. It never was. But it's interesting to see how women have turned it into a place of pure female hamster and their currency for attention.