This was inspired by a comment I found on the sub.

Don't you notice how "bros before hoes" is only spoken by single guys? The moment a woman enters the picture, it's thrown out the window. I've seen too many of my friends absorbed into the

"Can't man, I'm with my girlfriend."

"We have plans then."

"Sure, we'd love to come."

I think the reason wahmen have let men continue to use the phrase without bothering them is to lull them into a false sense of security. To make them feel like they can say "bros before hoes" and do whatever they want sometimes when in reality, that is far from the truth.