Given the responses from my previous comment on cheating. I decided to create a dedicated post for this. And I'm guessing because many of you got burnt in the past.

As always I'll try and tackle this subject from multiple angles and try and remain objective as possible.

As we enter 2018, I can't help think how in many regards society has destabilized and sadly regressed. They say every generation blames the one before but I really can't blame my father's generation, instead, I blame my generation (I'm 40 now) for having let everything go to shit. We're the generation responsible for giving birth to millennials. We're the generation who didn't keep feminists in check. We're the ones who opened the floodgates of political correctness.

How many of you here hated school? How many of you hated it primarily because of the assholes you had to share the same space with? Well, it's those very same assholes who grew up had kids and all but destroyed humanity. They're the most accountable (yes your peers) for having created this monstrosity. The turd brains that you see around you are merely a result of their influence.

This ties heavily into infidelity because shit started going south around the 2000 mark. One can only put so much blame on technology although this also played a part.

What I want to make perfectly clear is that subjects like infidelity must be viewed without some filter lense of the past, but rather where they currently are, and again in context to the rest of society and all years (decades) of accumulated debauch and sheer vile influence.

Now I'll talk about US influence. I believe Japan and the US are the current leaders in social development. Each in their own way, however, the US has way more influence than Japan. The US has the largest and most dangerous propaganda machine which is western entertainment produced by Hollywood. Another huge factor is that of internet propagation. As an example, does anyone here know who the president of Japan is? Can anyone here even speak Japanese? Yet even the poorest cunt in India knows who Donald Trump is. Most people on the planet have a basic grasp of US politics.

So social ideas, such as those pushed by the feminist agenda eg: open relationships - might not always originate in the US, but the advent of these ideas are almost always due to US influence.

To put it another way, the US is a man who shits. And all other countries are a dog who eats this shit.

This means that no country or culture on earth is safe, whatever happens in the US gets propagated, and shit happens quickly and almost instantly. It's strange, but I've seen it in a post ex-soviet block country, how certain notions just become widely accepted, I guess because the majority are all lapping up the US propaganda.

And so it is with infidelity, what might start off as widely exaggerated bullshit only to be found in the tabloids or women's magazines, or movies, TV shows, etc. These ideas find their way into homes of "average" folk, of which a portion digest this bullshit, and accept it as the norm, and then carry on living it - and then this affects the rest of the population (The wildfire effect), and the whole time the mainstream media validates it all as normal (and an actual phenomenon).

There is no escape and no fix for this. Society will further degrade, and the entire world will be affected.

I give it another solid 20 years before monogamy is considered just plain old fashioned and open relationships are the absolute social norm.

What follows is the complete separation from sex and morality (love). Where having sex with someone will be considered as socially acceptable as having a cup of coffee.

Yes we'll get there. But we're not there yet. No instead we're now in 2018 heading there. And so right now monogamy still rules supreme, or does it? Well not really. Monogamy is seriously under threat.

I wouldn't say marriage is completely dead, but it's already in a decayed state. What might seem like a triumph to MGTOW to avoid complications such as divorce rape, from another angle is another nail in the coffin of monogamy. Regardless, marriage has reached "junk status". The divorce rate is so high, and there's zero enforcement of keeping vows and almost no stigma in divorce. Females no longer need men to raise children, etc.

When we were kids, we didn't get every toy. We watched those hot wheel commercials and could only dream of those bigger Lego sets, etc. These days with cheaper Chinese goods, toys aren't even that special, kids get virtually everything they want. Even as an adult I can feel the effects of "snowflake syndrome". It's an instant world, and almost nothing is completely offline to the middle class. People are far more used to getting what they want.

And the same applies to sex. People have this "Why the hell not attitude". In a recent survey, roughly 40% of Czech people thought that extra relationship affairs were not immoral. The general idea is that what isn't discovered doesn't hurt anyone. People believe they are entitled to sexual gratification. In the UK similar research was done, and while not as shocking still is extremely shocking comparing results to same surveys done a decade ago.

Sex with the same person can get boring over time. 200 years ago, being 50 was already extremely old. These days, people are fucking into their 70's. 50 is like the new 30. You can see where I'm going with this. Another nail in the coffin of monogamy.

Let me tell you, I always thought I was wild. But the "normal" and respectable people I know here - some of which are over 45+, still party at the same levels (or worse) than I was doing in my 20's. Yes, I'm talking now about infidelity.

Let's talk a bit about alcohol. Because this stuff removes inhibitions and disconnects you a bit from your responsibilities. Without going into too much detail, it creates a bit of temporary insanity. Does your wife/girlfriend drink? EVEN A LITTLE. Then she'll at some point cheat on you. Almost guaranteed.

Why? Because no one alive has that much self-control. And it's a catch 22. If she drinks heavily she'll be drunk more often and more likely to cheat. If she drinks only on occasion she'll get drunk much more easily and not as accustomed to the effects, and so will be very likely to cheat on you while drunk (even after 2-3 glasses of wine).

Proof. Go and turn yourself into a PUA (following red pill lift bro) bullshit. And then go out of your way and try out married women. You'll have SOLID results.

When I was younger I used to believe I was the "married women whisperer". I had BY FAR more luck with married women, or with boyfriends than single women. Why? Because they were bored because they wanted something new/special. And there weren't strings attached.

I never fucked a married woman who EVER complained what kind of a bastard her husband was. ALL were deeply in love with their partner and deeply respected him. But they all felt like their own person too, and the thing they had with me, was me interacting with them. NEVER their marriage.

I'm leaving the rest of the discussion to the comments.