Any younger mgtows our there? If so, tell me your experiences and the lead up.ث

Adamurid · 2018-07-28T08:03:48+00:00

I have never had a personal experience with women as bad as most people on this subreddit - I was raised in a loving home with parents who remained together throughout the crash of ‘08 and the fall of my dad’s business.

what turned me MGTOW was the experiences of others. my closest friends have single mothers who abuse them, one of my mates was claimed to be a rapist (eventually proven wrong), some kid got tricked by his girlfriend and is now an expecting father against his will, - to name a few.

my best friend has a myriad of mental health issues, with quite heavy anxieties about his appearance. the girls at school find it very amusing to bully him for it - laughing IN HIS FACE about his appearance, without intervention from his “friends”. there’s a particular type of routine they play on him, which is where they act like they’re in love with him as a joke ( calling him “boyfriend”, hugging him, etc ). no one laughs - it’s just a strange and uncomfortable type of dominance play.

I eventually realised the nature of women when we had a biology lesson on reproduction and what women look for in mates. it all clicked. all these actions were the symptoms of subconscious reproductive selection. I turned to the corners of the internet I once scorned to understand the revelation. I learnt about the experiences of other men - their own encounters and losses. what turned me MGTOW was the realisation that these stories and excerpts all overlapped, and that what I thought was once bad luck and poor selection was in fact something far larger and more insidious- far more than I could have ever imagined.

Atton_Risk · 2018-07-28T08:15:29+00:00

Been MGTOW since I was 13 and I am now 19 turning 20 in one month it has almost nothing to do with personal experience. But my first experience with female chauvinism was more or less the spark that pushed me into the MRM. From that point forward I was hit with red pills and as the mrm began to die. I fell straight into MGTOW more than anything it made sense and described reality for example.

I'd like to get married and have children and take care of them, own a fully paid house, maybe own a second rental house to secure my retirement thru passive income. However a divorce could threaten all of that. If I've contributed to 80% of marital assets then I should be entitled to 80% of marital assets. My inheritance, work pension and pre marital assets/money should not be divided no matter how long a marriage lasted for. Alimony or maintenance should not exist, it should not be my legal responsibility to financially take care of an adult person who isn't family. Child support should not be based as a percentage of income. Common law marriages shouldn't exist, I find it unbelievable that you could be married by the law without even having a marriage or signing a marriage contact. Domestic violence protections should not be given without evidence. Who else agrees with me? I'm sure there must be others who think the same way. I don't think anything I said is unreasonable or sexist.

I'm pretty much this way because the status quo is cancerous.

setnaD_dnumdE · 2018-07-28T09:18:51+00:00

21, four year lurker here.

Father and mother split when I was a few months old.

You know the drill... Mother got custody while I got to see my father every other weekend.

My father is an amazing man. Dude was a drug dealer back in his high school days in the 70's, but joined the Navy and got his life back on track. Even managed to make Cheif, the resilient bastard.

The reason he joined the Navy wasn't his own. He got caught out in the Texas countryside with his at-the-time girlfriend of fifteen years old with him being eighteen. He saw the writing on the wall and left before he could get filed with "rape" charges. Her parents were pressuring it though for sure. This showed me how easy it was to get in trouble with the law when around a woman. I thought that it was an isolated case, but this was just a puzzle piece to a larger picture.

Grew up in a small town in Washington, having been a student at one of the most prestigious middle schools, if you could even call them that.

There were only a handful of guys in my small twenty-three - ish class, and most if not all had divorced parents. That's when the MGTOW seed was planted in the back of my mind.

I'm not a good looking man by any means, but I guess my dont-give-a-fuck attitude attracted quite a few women when I was in high school. Had my fair share of opportunity, but was oblivious to the hints that they were dropping and after having been a porn - addict for nearly a decade, didn't care. Still dont.

Had a blonde bimbo go to the principle of my school claiming harassment and slander (probably a petty attempt at getting my attention), none of which could be proven because it was baseless to begin with. Had a "No Contact" order shoved in my face but my mother and best friends' mother took care of that real quick by threatening getting lawyers involved. Shit was laid to rest, and I was lucky. It still demonstrated to me the power of the pussy when allied with authority.

Stumbled upon a video that Sandman had done a few years back. Hated his monotone voice at the time, but grew to love every minute of it when he was dropping redpill truth bombs, which was all the time.

Going my own way getting involved in a Plumbing Apprenticeship over in Eastern Washington, life just gets better and better without a Thot in my mind.

Stay humble you bastards. Good luck on the Way.

Written on an Android phone so be gentle lads.

Tl:dr Dad almost got shafted back in the day via law+woman.

Almost all of my (elemantary/middleschool) male classmates were from divorced families.

Almost got shafted by my high school via baseless claims from a petty cunt of a girl vying for attention. Who harbored no remorse for her actions and wasn't punished by the school because vagina.

Jlax1027 · 2018-07-28T10:21:45+00:00

Hi. 23 in a couple months. Porn addicted teenager growing up from age 13-19. Have a Simp father who has to work all the time. Angry mother who yelled at me for everything and made my life miserable (dad never argued, things are better now but growing up just fucking sucked) First girlfriend at 14-15 (middle school). Was super alpha as a teen going through puberty and tossed her to the curb without even realizing it. Got deep into porn around that time probably fucked me up. Was miserable throughout highschool. Junior/Senior year got new gf. Smoked tons of pot. Fapped all the time. Got dumped by highschool GF twice. She was probably fucking other dudes based on how much of a freak she was and how dishonest when i look back on it. Went to community college after hs. Age 18-19. Got deep into PUA culture. New a bit about mgtow never thought of it. Got high off of validation after my first time banging a girl from my class, then went on a crazy streak fueled by hormones, validation and just thrill seeking. (Was really easy for me. Im short 5’6. But good face. Every where i go people say im cute, girls say im hot. Guys say im handsome. Whatwver. I think its my personality mixed with it that makes me more likeable) Double makeouts in clubs. fingering girls in my cousins bedroom, makeout at elementary schools behind the playgrounds you name it. Got 3rd serious relationship at 19-20. Tried to control me and was just a terrible relationship. Tried to pregnancy scare me and many other things. Havent been in a relationship since (this was about 2 1/2 years ago). Focused on my future. Graduated pre-med about three months ago. (2 years of schooling). Went on NOfap that whole 2 years and was celibate for one year. Probably did not fap for more than five months at times. Too much Porn was my problem, and really distorted my reality. After i graduated i went to a trip by myself to asia for five weeks and really had time to unstress but really think about my life. Thats when i started going on reddit more and this sub as well. Realized how my narrative of always wanting a relationship had been plaguing my whole life really. I really thought about it.

•with mgtow and the desire to improve. ive risen past this crazy fucked up addiction to watch porn everynight. Dont need to smoke pot to numb the pain. Secured myself a well paying career. Am truly truly comfortable with myself. Being in my own space. Being happy with who i am. Seeing the world for the way it truly is in western society. How we’ve been fooled our whole lives that there are devils disguised as angels. That urges men to succumb to the hive mind and eat shitty food sit on the couch drink beer and be a numbnut. Ive seen so much now that im forever changed. While people i know think im the same old same old. The deep internal change ive experienced is life changing. Going my own way. Doing my own thing. Not seeking the validation of females. Not wanting to fuck every chick. Acknowledging that yea shes hot and im horny whatever. Not letting that control me. Being able to do what i say i do. Be who i want to be and at the same time enjoy this path of life I’ve chosen. When I look back i feel so fucking blessed. That I didn’t get a girl pregnant. That i didnt get injured. That i didnt get a DUI or something that could’ve fucked my life so hard. For the first time in 22 years of my life I wake up. Im fucking happy. Im confident. The outlook ive got is just great and its come from working my way not through just the external challenges life has given me, but finally being able to have fixed this odd narrative i had in my own mind that always made me feel lonely and depressed. Realize that you ARE enough. Once i crossed this line. Its just impossible to go back. Im goin my own way now and I’d die before i turn back to what i once was. I was always that guy people loved to be around cause id crack jokes seem happy and laugh all the time, but really deep down my reality was fucked from

• poor diet • too much porn/pot • not standing up formyself • being to “nice” • always imagining a girl could make my life better •putting pussy on a pedestal

After learning how to fix these now i still crack jokes and love being with my friends and company. But my favorite part is deep down im not sad anymore. Im not crackin jokes to compensate or whatever and be likeable. I just crack jokes cause i fucking can. And deep down i feel my laughter in my soul and its a god dam good feeling being content inside and out. This feeling of...”ive finally figured out the puzzle to myself.”

ovation130 · 2018-07-28T10:49:27+00:00

18 yearold senior high student here. I guess its getting worse here in the Philippines. Slowly and slowly girls who I thot, woops I mean thought, would be kind hearted angels who can do no harm start exhibiting symtoms of bitchery. My former simp classmate had a girlfriend who constantly bitched about everything. Mind you he was a 5’9 and buff (thats already tall here in the Philippines). When things got bad. The friends of the thot would team up(all 6 of them) and shame the fuck out of the guy. He would just look down and broken. Sad to see a guy being torn to bits.

Another friend of mine (about 5’10 and also buff) had just broken up. You would think that the troubles of the guy were over. Unfortunately the ex would constantly message the guy and shame him endlessly on messenger, the guy would’t block her out of pride. But after all that shaming, the bitch had the audacity to ask for a favor from the guy. The guy shares this to me for help. Had mixed reactions, part of me was sad and pissed, part of me was happy as to know that the things I read here on r/mgtow are true.

krulvainxd · 2018-07-28T11:50:00+00:00

19 ,from india , was always a mgtow , realised it now . i have never had a girlfriend and i used to think that theres something wrong with me for not wanting one . i have desires but then i snap back into reality . there are still some conservative women left in india at least in the state from where i come ,traditional housewives so it isnt that bad for us . i never really had any experiences but i just feel women are a waste of time . they are over rated . gmow has helped me save money and time and also respect , as boys in my culture mingling in relationshits are looked down at .

2018-07-28T15:53:37+00:00

I just pay a hooker whenever i'm horny and fuck the shit out of her. Once a month is great for me i'm 25 btw had lots of relationships during highschool and university i'm 6 feet 2 and am pretty muscular i train boxing and bodyweight everyday so not the average whimp you might say no problem with my looks girls actualy say im goodlooking not that i gaf about their opinion never been convinced of the idea of love and feelings for women i mean i honestly think its just something the movies invented to get men to stop pursuing their dreams and settle down have kids and slowly die inside and outside lol and having talked to a lot of women i kind of just started to hate their mentality they see everything as money they're very manipulative and recently became a prepper not the stockpiling train militia type just preparing for worst case scenario and i believe that if that ever happens women will change that's for sure they will very quickly become obediant and fragile not that it will matter to me they will become sex slaves for warlords and will then start realizing that they need men. I personaly wont take advantage or rape a woman ( my dick dont wor like that) but i will not help either i'll just wave and smile from my balconny. To anyone wondering how i'm doing right now . Never been greater no debt i have 5000 dollars saved working my own hours planning on getting a hunting liscence and buying a rifle because im not in america where you can by guns with your grocerys (would love that actually lol) and i do whatever the fuck i want to do honestly whenever i want to. Peace

Ten-Gou · 2018-07-28T16:51:36+00:00

Made an account for this. My personal start to MGTOW was probably very insignificant in comparison to everyone else here. But it was baby steps, y’know.

I live in a family with two sisters, as a middle child I live with a big sister and a little sister, both kinda sjw-y. Honestly they let me see the ugly side of female nature. In any case, both of them aim to become psychiatrists, or something close to that. And I know that they will never ever be able to pay off their debts alone.

And they both seem to hate - or at least dislike- our dad, who for as long as I can remember has worked tirelessly just to keep all of us afloat. He expects the best from all of us. But that is understandable, I would think. And both of them can’t seem to ever listen to what he has to say, whatever it is. Whether it is teaching us about finance and investment (both important things to know about) or just his own life back in China before moving to the US, they never even attempt to try and listen or absorb what he has to say, what he tries to teach. Watching my dad struggle with this fact, that 2/3 of his offspring don’t even try to understand, turned me off on the idea of marrying, if that was what my legacy would turn into.

This was before learning about divorce law, about Title IX, about sentencing differences, about all the legal paraphernalia in place to torment the life of a man.

At the age of 20, I come to be free.

Title	Any younger mgtows our there? If so, tell me your experiences and the lead up.ث
Author	Luvmommy1
Upvotes	7
Comments	9
Date	July 28, 2018 7:17 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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