Why do men let women control them?

flee_market · 2018-07-25T04:47:54+00:00

Because men have been socialized to do so. Almost from birth. That is a lot to deprogram. But /r/MGTOW helps.

ConstantChinner · 2018-07-25T04:40:05+00:00

Pussy. It is the only reason. Maybe if a man is married with kids, he will also put up with a lot of abuse for the kid's sake.

georgesoyros · 2018-07-25T06:07:03+00:00

Because men have been trained at an early age to obey their mother, and most men have become scared of a mother-figure always judging what they do.

As men grow older, it all continues to go that way. Men obey their female teachers, the female cashier, the old lady in the bus, etc. Men doing the best they can to not upset a woman, because they know mommy always got upset when he did something she didn't like.

(Emotional manipulation, not letting a child being a child, the narc mother who needs a scapegoat child, the mother who realizes she has a weak husband and uses her son as a second husband to make up for the flaws of her husband in order to feel feminine, etc.)

Later in life, they feel the need to marry a woman and obey them as well, because their memory is telling them that it's supposed to be that way. A lot of men are afraid of being alone as well. They feel safe and 'whole' when a woman controls them.

This is why the idea of women taking care of boys is a threat for these boys. Boys need male teachers and male only classes. Now that boy-scouts are pretty much illegal, boys have (almost) nowhere to go. Boys need to learn from men to become (better) men themselves. (Not talking about that 'become alpha male' bs.)

Single mothers often get mentioned here a lot, that it is damaging for a boy because he doesn't have a father figure. A passive, silent, effeminate father is just as bad, maybe even more harmful for a boy. After all, the boy will adopt his father's ways of living and learns that it's a man's duty to be obedient towards a woman.

The future will only get more and more feminine and weak as long as this cycle continues.

MGTOW is breaking that cycle, in a way that less and less children will have to put up with it, simply because (most) MGTOW won't reproduce.

DangZagnut · 2018-07-25T04:50:35+00:00

They don't bring sex, I bring sex, women don't participate in sex but star fishing. They consider it a huge deal if they go down on you.

Who is really doing all the work in bed on average?

They bring access to a wet hole, and that's all. But you know what? You can buy your own hole that is only for sex, without all the extra stupid.

rremarkable · 2018-07-25T04:43:17+00:00

Men are told that we need a women to make us happy. Blame hollywood, blame the media, blame tradition. As for the control thing, we are told that if we we don't let women be our equals, have their freedom, or whatever ect. ect. then we are CONTROLLING them & that we are sexist and misogynist and all of that bullshit.

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2018-07-25T08:14:07+00:00

Cause you love this woman and you take that BS behaviour for granted, thinking it will end when you do what she asks you to do. But that's just the start of the trap, once you give in to such things, it will keep going and going and going and you'll be trapped. In addition, lots of guys truly believe they will never find anyone else and "having a girlfriend is the meaning of life"

It sucks to find out it's all a lie

Ipride362 · 2018-07-25T10:13:58+00:00

Boomer men let women have equality in the household so they could have free sex.

Then the women didn’t hand over the sex. It became transactional.

Now, Millenial men watch their fathers suffer and think it’s normal.

MadPreacher1AD · 2018-07-25T04:45:25+00:00

Gomer Pyle voice Because I lub her and she lubsssss meeeeeee!

Red_pilledman · 2018-07-25T13:47:38+00:00

Gynocentric brainwashing and them being pussy whipped.

2018-07-25T06:40:58+00:00

Pussy whipped.

hildabeast64 · 2018-07-25T13:52:25+00:00

pussy and because of self hating endoctrination.

DeltaForcePanda · 2018-07-25T16:37:38+00:00

Pussy. Boy when I was on meds and had no libido I couldn't care less about women. I saw them for what they were. Annoying, stupid, immature, self-absorbed, entitled and spoiled.

Docbear64 · 2018-07-25T16:57:16+00:00

Little boys whose only guide through life was mom , feel alone and useless without a girlfriend or wife to fill that matriarchal role in his life.

Title	Why do men let women control them?
Author	Blade_XL
Upvotes	36
Comments	15
Date	July 25, 2018 4:38 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/91oqmm/why_do_men_let_women_control_them/
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