The topic I want to discuss here, is a continuation of a famous Sandman's video Shit Tests. This video has a quite good explanation of how and why woman tests man if he is "worthy of her", and what are his boundaries, but I think there is yet one more aspect of this phenomenon which wasn't covered by original video and I will tell you about it further.

It may sound absolutely weird, but you need to know and understand. It is not enough for her if you simply love her. It's not as easy as "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best". She has a deep self-destructive program telling her that you must love her worst vices, her darkest side and her most weird sins. For most modern girls, there is no need to go far away to find such stinky parts of her. Her whorish past, in most cases, is enough. But if her dark side is not dark enough for her, and she thinks you 'deserve' darker, she feels uncomfortable. She tries to invent some new shit. She starts to dream about "what if?" things. To imagine what will happen if i. e. she will made a tattoo you will certainly don't like and she knows it, or if she starts smoking, or drinking alcohol, or look ugly, or even cheat on you. What will happen if she betrays your strongest hopes. Will you forgive and forget? What your reaction will be? Will you still love her? Will you accept her fall? Will you mind if really bad things happen, if she starts really bad experiments? And there's yet one more disturbing thing about this. She will actually hate you if you forgive and forget, and if you continue to love her even knowing her dark side. She will not respect you and your goodness. And she will contempt you in a worst way possible. Women do not acknowledge men's virtues.

It's like a clock-operated bomb, which will start ticking as soon as you start a long-term relationships.

They say, when a couple get married, both make their own mistake. She thinks that he will change in time, and he thinks that she will not change. You love woman because of her present image. You find her attractive/pleasant/kind at the current moment, and you falsely belive that she will always be the same with you. You are wrong, totally wrong. She will always try to change. She will throw weird shit to your face, testing your patience and your inner borders. She will try to tame you. She will try to understand your personality not because she loves you, but because she wants to know all your weaknesses to hit you later when you will not expect. She will betray you. The bomb will blow out eventually, and you will never know when and where.