Having served in the Canadian infantry for 5 years and moving into a new stage of life as a Criminology student in Canada I never fit in very much. Surrounded by immature frat boys living off of their parents, or excessively emotional women who clung to their ideal mentality of victim-hood. In my 3rd year of University, I was sat down my the University's vice president of students who told me that a formal complaint had been filed against me under the universities sexual assault policy (this was August), come May the final deliberation happened... Sitting in a classroom with a screen between myself and the complainant she told the professors that I was a campus predator and had caused he to be depressed and begin binge eating again... The part she always left out, is that we had been seeing each other for a year. I utterly shut down through this entire process, I personally forgot who I was and soon enough summer came along and I had a fantastic job opportunity with the provincial government, called into my first shift I heard that my trainer was going to be a woman and my heart sank instantly, yet when I went there it was a lot of fun. She was very polite and joked around a lot, many of the conversations were less than professional... Two days later my supervisor called me in stating a sexual harassment complaint had been filed against me, with the reasons being "I asked her out to coffee and that I complimented her repeatedly", my lesson I learned... When a woman constantly calls themselves stupid and you try to stick up for them and call them smart and say "they have so much going for them", don't... Be quiet, be professional and don't joke around. After many years of working for the federal government in a brutal environment, I've learned that I need to focus on me and not on relationships and not to invest myself in women.

TLDR: Forge your own path, and don't let emotional individuals ruin your life.