Hello, I am just posting to say some things that I been thinking for awhile now, and to make everyone else know that I am also out there, analizing and sharing many of the viewpoints that the community holds. It will be more a statement and a starting point for my self that I want to express aloud to hold me accountable for it in the future; because Consistency of thoughs and actions is something I want to achive for myself.

Anyway, let's state the relevant information of who I am: * 25 years old man * 7/10 (+/- 1) in regards of physical appearance * college graduated

8 years ago I started a sort of experiment where I decided not to ask out or make any advances to women that I found atractive back then, motivated by 2 factors: (1) I was, and to some extend still I am, an emotional mess without a clear vision of who I was and what I wanted; so it was perfecty clear to me that any kind of relationship or romantic interaction would be a failure, and I didn't want to expose myself and my family problems to anyone else; and also (2) I grew up in an enviroment where I ended up understanding that women need respect under any circunstances, no questions asked, no matter what (my father is the passive and my mother the agressive in my parents' relationship, so there was where I got the hints of what is acceptable and what's not). So to me, by suppressing my desires and letting them the space to field comfortable would eventually lead to a comment or a request to hang out together; but to make the story short, the result I have found is this: 8 years = 0 comments or dates. I meaning, for real?.

3 years ago I concluded this result was almost statistical impossible, so I retreat back to my research to find out why my hipothesis turn out to be false. After reading some papers, and book's chapters focus on the psychological nature of human behavior in relationships I quickly discovered the logical inconsistencies between the social narrative based on the feminist theory about what women want and my personal experience on what they chosee to say and do. So my final conclusion was to shout out to my self: "Bullshit !!!"

Afterwars, I thougth "Well, perhaps the problem is me. I'm only focus on my studies and other activities that I like, I'm not attractive enough (which doesn't hurt my feelings at all), or some other blind spot I'm not aware at all. But most importantly I realised that over all I was personally ok.

At that point in my life it came clear to me that: * I really like control and power over my life * The frustration and depresion I had been experiencing were coming from my procrastination and lack of discipline in specific areas, and the guidance I was craving for I could find it in more mature and experienced people by asking, not in a relationship where a could create a confort zone and fooled myself by trying to feel better and not confronting my most fundamental problems by my own.

Fast forward, I kept reading stuff from both sites of the equation, discover the work of Jordan B. Peterson in regards of the current social discussions and conflicts, which results and premises aproved my logic tests and then the James Damore memo came and that was the drop that spilled the glass for me; especially because I studied and now work as engineer in the life sciences field and it was ... just lame, how malicious the information presented was handled and discussed.

And now, with this disproportionate hysteria about interactions in the work place between men and women is just ridiculous. Now it looks like a witch hunt for me. I mean, every bad behavior needs a reciprocal and proporcionated punishment, while keeping the principle of innocence until proven otherwise, just like Matt Damon point out recently. But well, women are demanding executions with no questions asked, because it's more important for them feeling well with themselfs than discovering the truth and learning from mistakes and the circunstances around the crimes people are been accused. Just saying (-.-).

And finally, today I'm sitting here realizing that the last 8 years have been a vaccination process for me againts all the shit storm mentioned above. I claim as mine the self improvement acttituded of the MGTOW community and for the rest I'm glad that I have take decisions that make me feel confident of the land I conquered under my feet until now.

Have a nice day, and keep focus.

Man, .... definitely I chosee a life of sacrifice and meaning over one full of the so call "hapiness"