Didn't mean for this to be a wall of text but looks like it ended up that way. I'm not a professional writer and have no intent to be.

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Mid June on a Tuesday afternoon, I just got off work and wanted to go for a ride on the bike (motorcycle) since I don’t get much free time during the week. I went to a couple spots I usually hit up as I’m friends with the bartenders and know some of locals that hang out there. My last stop is my “go to” place, the small town, hole in the wall local bar closest to my home where I usually know everyone there. I pop in there, get my usual seat, order a draft beer and talk to old man Frank next to me about whatever is happening in the world that day.

I wasn’t “dressed for success” or out looking for any action. Just some jeans, a crappy old MC5 shirt and some boots. But being 6’2” and not homely helps. After about 5 minutes I notice 2 girls down at the other end of the bar, from a distance couldn’t tell if they were attractive but definitely not ugly, they appeared to be around 25 or so. I finished my draft and kept the conversation going, everyone that came in stopped to say hi to me or gave me a shoulder pat (like I said small town) and I noticed that the 2 girls noticed this as they kept glancing over. (small town status lol)

I decided to go out on the patio, I had a decent buzz going. I got a closer look at the 2 girls. One was definitely a 5-6 and was dolled up with makeup, just a tad “curvey” and had a bandana in her hair to make her look kind of like a pin up girl. The other girl was actually a solid 7, slim, petit, good bone structure with minimal/no makeup, she seemed like an all American girl next door type not many girls can pull off a 7 with no makeup in my book.

In my head I just said to myself “I’m gonna get that girl in my bed. Maybe not tonight, but I will” I actually said that to old man Frank too and he just laughed. I went over to their high top patio table, looked at 5 and asked to bum a smoke. 5 apparently didn’t have any but she insisted that 7 does so I bummed one, lit up, introduced myself and had some playful banter with 5 about how I liked her bandana and that she reminded me of a “pin up girl”. I’m not one to usually compliment but I’ve found giving unique simple compliments sets you apart from the your “hot, gorgeous, beautiful” crap women probably always hear no matter what. 5 tells me she’s a hair dresser in the nearest metro area which is about an hour away, just got off work and that her friend lives up the street and they decided to have an impromptu quick drink to catch up. Finally 7 chimed in about something in our conversation so I turned to her and said “what’s your deal?” not in a negative/mean way but in a short way of saying “who are you, what do you do etc.” The conversation went something along the lines of this

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7 “I’m a makeup up Artist……”

Me: “Hah, you must be a comedian”

7 “no really I’m a makeup artist, I do all the fancy weddings around here blah blah blah”

Me: “I have a lot of friends in the cosmetology industry around here, no one would ever go out in public with out at least 50% of their face on”

7 “ You’re right... ths I thought I’d be safe here since this place is a hole in the wall and I don’t know anyone that comes in here”

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I just smiled and we all chatted a little bit, we ended up knowing a few of the same people and she actually worked with one of my ex’s and her sister at a “High End Salon” in the past. I noted that I dated our common acquaintance a while back and were still good friends (good preselection because the girl I dated was young, good looking and very likeable.)

I went back inside and got caught up talking to a few other people and it started getting a little late. I paid my tab and walked outside to my bike saying nice to meet you to the set of girls. Looking back I should have gotten the # at this point but I wasn’t really concerned about it as I had a lot on my mind , there’s always other girls and I had some plates already.

A was talking to my friend a few days later and mentioned I met this girl she used to work with. This girl being an ex of mine started hamstering going through all her face-book friends and sending me pictures so I can identify the one (she’s worked with many girls in the industry that had the same name) She finally sent one of the girl over and my jaw nearly dropped. She was gorgeous (the power of hair, makeup and good lighting you know….) solid 9 material in the photo. I was kicking myself now for not bothering to get her number. So I did the next best thing and started up my facebook as I was off there for a few months and sent her a friend request.

Couple weeks pass i’m busy I’m with work, plates, gym and all the stuff that prevents you from being bored and really haven’t given her much of a second thought. Wanting to grab a beer after work and all my friend being busy or married I figured she lived close by so I sent a message that said “beers later?” didn’t hear back anytime soon but it didn’t phase me as I figured she probably gets DM’d all the time, so I call another plate an enjoy the night.

Fast forward a week later she messages me saying sorry but she was on a trip with her family but she’d love to grab a drink. This came as a pleasant surprise because I’ve already kind of wrote her off. I suggest a small little joint with a patio in a nicer part of town for around 6 on weeknight. The place was convenient for both of us and fairly casual. I take the bike for a spin down there (I always ride if the weathers nice) dressed casually in jeans and nice t-shirt. I showed up a little early went in and ordered a beer and sat next to a couple of 5’s. They made some small talk and flirted with me and even offered to buy me another beer which I declined. She sent a text that she was running a little late so I figured might was well chat for a bit. One of girl started prying a little bit about me and showed clear interests, but I was just trying to pass the time and didn’t reciprocate too much. All of a sudden I see both girls eyes shoot right past me, I see the bartender turn around, and all the old men watching the baseball game look away from the TV they were glued too. I felt a tap on my shoulder and turned around to see what I thought was just a girl next door type standing before me in a cute sundress with full war paint on. She gave me a hug right off the bat and I ordered her a beer. I introduced her to the pair of 5’s and they gave each other the fake pleasantries that girls are known for.

We grab beers and head out to the patio, and started chatting. Not too far into the conversation she commented on how I was talking to the girls when she came in and a few lines and responses really stuck out.

Her: “You know I could tell that girl as the bar was really into you.”

Me: “oh yeah? Why wouldn’t she be”

Her: “Do you always talk to girls when they’re out?”

Me: “ No, they usually come up and talk to me”

After a few beers and some good conversation I said I had to go as I had to be up early for work. Standings up she made a comment on how I was tall and she liked that. Once outside I start walking towards my bike when she ran over and said I owed her a hug (I never start hugs, as I’m not much of a hugger). She gave an extended more than friendly hug and I debated on asking her to come over, but I really did need to get some good rest for the morning and already had a few too many than I should have on a work night.

She text me that night but I couldn’t answer her until lunch the next day. She dropped hints about wanting to hang out again but nothing direct. I picked up what she was putting out there. Made plans for the following Sunday took her to 3-4 places to make it interesting and splitting rounds then Smashed. I found out she was actually in her mid-thirties compared to the 27 estimate I put on it, this was completely mind blowing as she has one of the best figures and skin quality I’ve ever seen in a girl and to be honest I always gave people a hard time about the “hot 36 year old” because I never really seen it. Been smashing about twice week for the past 2 months and I don’t think I’ve ever seen TRP principles proven right.

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Some Lessons Learned Below.

Plant a Seed: Always plant a good seed with women, even if the logistics aren’t looking right and you can’t sweep them up right then and there if you make a good impression and aren’t a creep they won’t forget.

Approach the Friend- This helps in 2 ways, first off if the friend isn’t as pretty she’ll welcome the flirting, this will help to build rapport with the set. If you have good SMV the hotter girl will start to get jealous as she’s used to being the center of mens attention. My new plate still makes comments about how she knows I wanted her friend, but she’s married. I said “what does it matter if shes married”

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Pretty Girls are Insecure about their Looks too - Like almost every field report, this girl is gorgeous, baseline 7 completely natural then to a 9 if she takes a little time to herself. She has dudes all over her shit on fb and Instagram and can get all validation she needs with a quick selfie. . She jokes that she really likes me because I saw “the real her and approached her when most guys seem intimidated” I told her “I was just drunk and you looked good.” When girls are all dolled up and looking their best I believe their confidence artificially Skyrockets

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Make Up, Hair and Lighting Do wonders: I don’t believe a girl could be an 8 or above naturally with out any make up. But that’s just how I think. Also, she doesn’t have a single Tattoo, which seems rare these days and doesn’t snapchat because you know, she’s an adult. Make up can make any girl look better of course. But if you have a good natural base and are skilled (as she was) your looks increase exponentially as opposed to just putting lipstick on a pig. In the 2 months or so we’ve been places in public, she is consistently the best-looking woman anywhere we go and the most hated by other girls. Which helps because I’ve been back to places since and girls come up and ask “so where’s your girlfriend at” while batting their lashes at me.

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Women are children: If I would have known this girl was 4 years older than me, I may have treated her differently unconsciously thinking she would demand more respect or some BS like that. But I didn’t know so I treated her like the usually 21-27 year old I approach and it worked like a charm.

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Know your value: No matter how good looking she is, she’s the one that’s lucky to be with you. Yes she definitely has more options because that’s how being a girl is, but it doesn’t mean those are good options. I’m lucky enough that I live in an area where there is little competition, i’m not some ultimate Chad Bro, but it can be nice to be the big fish in a small pond.

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Dread: Dread works, even when using girls that aren’t as pretty. Just knowing you have options will make a girl put on her best show. I pretty much gave her some default dread by talking to other girls while she was running late.

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Let them talk: She works in sales and she’s a women so we had a good 80/20 balance in conversation, if something started to bore me I’d lead it into another subject. Rarely did I walk about myself or try to brag or show off. A few funny anecdotes that you can work into conversation go a long way.

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Wit: I have fairly dry sense of humor, many women don’t share this trait. Just be confident in your jokes/ snide remarks and deliver them correctly. I make up for this by being quick and witty on the spot. You don’t always hit the mark with your wit, but you have to practice to see what works.

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A few comments over the past month straight from the horses mouth that confirm TRP principles.

“Wow, your tall. I like that” (no offense short dudes)

“Girls just like Dad-bods because it makes them feel more secure about other girls not taking their man, they’re not attractive”

“I like being told what to wear and what to do”

“I didn’t plan on that happening” said after smashing (sure you didn’t when you shaved every inch of your body and wore matching bra and panties)

“I really like you, I was going to make you wait a month before we did anything” Laughable

“I like a guy that can eat all his food” ( I just thought this was interesting)

“You’re always doing something interesting”

“guys always just talk about themselves and end up boring me”

“sometimes I get real quiet and guys will just start talking to fill the silence and talk me right out of being into them”

“Being needy is such a turn off”

As always believe what she does and not what she says, but I think a lot of these comments have truth behind them. She’s a great girl, almost potentially LTR material if not for the age but you can’t have it all. I’ll enjoy it while it last because after all its just my turn.