Lost after relationship discussion

UserName3564 · 2018-07-17T09:15:50+00:00

Find hobbies that dont revolve around meeting or impressing women. Travel around alone. Learn to be comfortable on your own.

Mister-Melvinheimer · 2018-07-17T10:20:07+00:00

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MGTOW-Balance · 2018-07-17T12:03:04+00:00

a little personal story, hope it helps

back in the day, was living with this chick, she was fine, just turned 18, i was like her second or third man. no too long after we move in together, the sex stops. tried to talk about it didn't work. told her we have to break up. we did, she moved out

so come home from work the first day, to empty apartment, felt down.
second day, felt not as bad. third day, i was like, wait a minute, this feels kinda good, no one to bitch me. by the end of the week i was in seventh heaven

moral is that you have ALL the freedom to do whatever you want. go horse riding, shoot pool, ride motorcycles, learn a trade or new skill, go hang out wherever you want, do nothing if you don't feel like, get additional schooling, hang out with your boys, etc. etc.

it's about whatever YOU want

Sol_Install · 2018-07-17T09:15:25+00:00

Focus on what you didn't like. What made you angry. The worthless sacrifices in the end. How the sex didn't make it worth it. How she was more of a liability than a benefit. Realize how you have less stress, less concerns, more money, more free time, MORE FREEDOM.

DangZagnut · 2018-07-17T09:21:54+00:00

You need to tilt your brain so you aren't focused on the same thing over and over again.

WolfgangBreitweit · 2018-07-17T10:09:14+00:00

Apart from focusing on your own abilities, I know that withholding the instinct to be supportive to wahmen can‘t be beaten by beating your meat.

So what do I do? I have a handful of female acquaintances. Not friends, not sex mates. Just people I know a bit who happened to have titts. If I see they need support, I help them to a certain degree. Having strict boundaries about how much help I would offer.

Once I helped, my instincts are satisfied, no urge to be with one of them. It could cost you a few hours per month and you are safe. So it’s some kind of virtual simping, without being a simp. If she gets demanding, tell her you have no time. A good way to get over it. But be careful. Select wisely. Never take one that you would want to fuck. Care for the ugly ones, don’t care for the princesses.

Title	Lost after relationship discussion
Author	Palmbru
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	July 17, 2018 9:02 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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