I've not been on many dates but of the ones I've been on, there was a striking pattern... I noticed that the first/only thing they ask me is "what do you do?" as in "what's your job?" I ask them many stuff, like if they are the only child, their hobbies, etc... but they never care to know about that stuff about me. If the convo dries up they might just throw back a question that I asked about them to me, just out of boredom, but I could tell that they don't care to know the answer. But when they ask the "what do you do?" question they want lots of details and are enthusiastic to hear the answer. I guess this means that I am not a chad haha. Cause if I was a chad they would not care to know what I "do." In fact, for chads, they don't ask him anything, because they just care to see what he looks like. So pretty much if you are in the bottom 80% of males in terms of looks, all you ever will be to women is a walking wallet. That's why I am working towards a good career: my plan is to pull off the niceguy persona and lure bitches into wanting marriage, but then fucking and dumping them. It will give them a sweet taste of their own medicine.