They benefit from ATTENTION - Stop feeding fuel to the fire

anongogogo · 2018-07-11T08:26:45+00:00

I pretend they don't exist.

newcaprica1 · 2018-07-11T14:35:43+00:00

There is a new 8 in my social circle, extreme hot tight 21 yr body. All the guys are beta in my grp and buy her drinks (in spite of her being rich af) and drive her home and call her daily.
I absolutely ignore her and don't even allow her to hug me, and when i see her at parties I never even say hi, and at times act like I don't know her.
She literally eye fucks the life out me and is all over me and grabbing my butt etc. She even asked my number several times and I say I don't have a phone. Hot Women cannot deal with someone saying no to them, breaks their entitled frame. I could bang her but I have no time to waste on such women.

flee_market · 2018-07-11T11:28:03+00:00

I have no reason to pay attention to random people. I stopped paying attention to ass-shaking bitches when I was 20. The more they expose themselves, the more I am repelled by them.

They doing this for anyone. Why should I like that? I imagine having her as a girfriend and she being chased by a ton of PUAs. I still fail how women can see this as attractive for men. It might be seuxally stimulating, but not more than that. And if it's all they can do, well, then it's all they are to me.

I think every man who has a minimum amount of self esteem thinks the same. Only idiots are staring at thots. If a "nice" woman is entering my field of view, I look briefly at her face. That's enough to proceed without further action.

flee_market · 2018-07-11T15:51:09+00:00

You're not wrong.

When I was in the Army, I had to spend a few weeks in the Mojave Desert at Iraq Readiness Training (Fort Irwin, CA).

In typical Army fashion, this was after I got back from Iraq :)

Anyway, since I was Signal I had to get out to the site a few days before the rest of the unit drove out in order to set up all of the communications infrastructure - pop up the tents, erect the antennas, connect the radios, run the cables, etc.

While I was there, there were some Signal soldiers from another unit working with us. A few of them actually worked directly alongside me in the same tent, one of them being a fairly attractive female soldier (by Army standards - most Army women are dog ugly, nothing like the models the USAF recruits).

I didn't even know she was there at first, because I was too focused on setting up an antenna mast - I was walking in and out of our tent, digging around in tough boxes looking for parts, that sort of thing. One of my squadmates, a much younger guy who thought he was real hot shit, was trying to chat her up.

As I stepped over them with parts in hand, on my way back out of the tent, he said to her by way of introduction, "And this is flee_market".

I was in a shit mood so I didn't even look at her and uttered, "And I'm also busy". And continued on my way and got back to work.

That must have been the first time in her life that this pretty girl had a guy NOT instantly enter her orbit, because it made me stand out in a big way - over the next several days she went out of her way to talk to me, make lots of eye contact, lots of smiling at me, asking me questions about my life and my plans for the future.

Long story short, after the exercise ended and we went back to our respective bases (in different states), we kept in touch over the internet and eventually made plans for me to fly to see her. We got a hotel room and fucked each other absolutely stupid. She came her brains out. I came my brains out. Life was good.

A few more visits like this later and I find out she's married and trying for kids with her Army husband, who is currently on deployment.

AWALT.

reduction-deduction · 2018-07-11T11:21:42+00:00

This! I agree with you, my dude. They feed on our attention. Especially when you are going your way and you are focused on yourself and determined to become the man you wanna be, especially then they beg for your look.

And you know what? We should not be distracted by them. Our future is more important than momentary satisfaction of a woman approving our choices. We will be kings in the time after. We just gotta hang on a little bit(some years up to a decade) and then it is done - we made it and it is now our turn to enjoy life :D

2018-07-11T15:13:25+00:00

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buckscaldrip · 2018-07-11T15:41:11+00:00

I wish this was that easy, 9/10 I see the gaslight in behavior and the female manipulation, however my little head gets the best of me sometimes, I find it hard not to check out women and hard to not socialize with them Albeit I am only 19.... I've heard dating around the block will help me move past this

thereddespair · 2018-07-11T19:36:58+00:00

heres a question. cant you just have a woman, and simply not let her manipulate you or your values?

you have to admit, if such is happening to a person, what other much bigger forces out there are more capable and actively are manipulating his thoughts...

ConsumingImpulse · 2018-07-11T16:00:08+00:00

None of this is subjective

Title	They benefit from ATTENTION - Stop feeding fuel to the fire
Author	VarCryne
Upvotes	62
Comments	15
Date	July 11, 2018 7:31 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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