I feel useless now

oldfuzzysocks · 2017-11-29T02:01:38+00:00

my son is in his early 20s so I can say to you what I said to him. Trade school, Hobbies, Hookers. Not a lot of women in most trades. Plumbers, electricians, HVAC, can all make a damn good living with the right connections. And women usually don't work in places like that because it's actual work. Hobbies give you something to do when you have free time. Hookers are cheaper than a gf and are legal in some parts of Europe. I wish someone would have pointed me in that direction years ago. I love my kids but I think I'd live a much different life if I had it to do over again.

edit: also, welding. I have a friend that's a welder and he pretty much works when he wants to and lives a pretty easy life.

falselyaccusedguy234 · 2017-11-29T02:06:21+00:00

Learn to live with it and adjust to get what you want from the world. We aren't going back to monogamous marriage any time soon, if ever.

You were fed a pack of lies about female nature, and now you need to learn to adjust to reality. It won't be the last time that you go through this type of experience as you grow up, so get used to the feeling and learn to avoid the accompanying despair (not sure why we lie to our kids so pervasively and then mock them when they are shocked and disappointed in our vile hypocrisy, but that's another topic for another day).

gods_bones · 2017-11-29T02:26:32+00:00

Use that fear and those feelings to protect yourself. The great thing about the red pill is that you see reality for what it truly is. So you can see all the ways every single situation can go horribly wrong. Disengage. The blue pillers are the ones who should be afraid, they're the ones who go prancing & skipping all the way down the jaws of the legal system, at which point they will be enslaved and have their lives destroyed if they try to escape. You will never be anybody's slave. You're a ghost instead.

bartmichaelds · 2017-11-29T05:22:18+00:00

What kind of man do you want to be ?

That has nothing to do with women BTW.

You want to be what ? Strong ? Rich ? Experienced ? Smart ?

What do you want other people to think of you ? What do you want to think of yourself ? What would make you super proud ?

None of those things have to do with women.

They have to do with hard work, education, skills, discipline etc.

And along the way - if the sex urge is strong then experiment with women - learn for yourself - evaluate the redpill knowledge in a real environment.

That's what you do.

Answer those questions for YOU. Go your OWN way.

Good Luck.

hernes321 · 2017-11-29T02:14:03+00:00

What do you do now? Work on taking care of YOU and making YOU happy. You are young and full of testosterone so it makes you crazy to meet women, so it is not you, it is your body chemistry. You will move out of this stage at some point, your goal is to get there unscathed and happy. If you work on improving yourself, get skills and become self supporting, you will be in a much better position later.

reaper555 · 2017-11-29T02:39:26+00:00

You have to find your version of happiness that does not include women.

AmberJnetteGardner · 2017-11-29T03:37:19+00:00

Alllll those posts about how women see men are probably posted by men. That disrespect women.

Rick_OShay1 · 2017-11-29T02:23:50+00:00

Move to America, where the working man is taxed (robbed) less, and then save up the money you earn after trade school, and go get a wife from a foreign country.

My parents have recently celebrated their 30th anniversary, and the main key to them staying together is that she is from Mexico. My pop had to go to Mexico to find a good woman.

Title	I feel useless now
Author	bartmichaelds
Upvotes	10
Comments	14
Date	November 29, 2017 1:44 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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