To spend 16 through 29, several years - fucking bad boys, while curving good guys who would actually treat them right along the way, then when they hit 30 it's suddenly "Where have all the good guys gone", and "A good man is hard to find".

No they are not - you just were extremely picky, your pussy tingled for dangerous men, you felt entitled to a man in the top 15th percentile, and friendzone actual decent men. I'd say it's a mental illness, but that would be letting women off the hook. Which I refuse to do.