Okay, so, like a fly who can't resist the incredible sweet scent and smell and taste of the fleshy nectar inside that flower, and once he goes in attracted, it closes in on him and he dies; 'getting the nectar' between a woman's legs, and the entire sexual process can literally addict a (thus control) man. Brain scans show an orgasm is like a heroine user shooting a needle into his veins - it lights up the exact same areas.

A man doesn't just "want" his woman once he begins a sexual relationship: he actually begins to need and crave her.

The implications of her power and influence over the men of her tribe, for her survival, are then obvious. Men will crane their neck backwards to go above-and-beyond to ensure she is safe, protected, fed, he'd fight for her, go to war for her, fight other men and die even, invest in her emotionally, put up with her shit, all of this. And she knows this exact power she has over a man, at any status level on the societal pyramid, unconsciously or otherwise.

So then, why would ANY man, "get on his knees" and allow a woman to have this dominion over him? He's allowing himself to become a biological Tool, to provide and protect her for "love", aka in return for sex.

Guys who say they are "in love" with her I think is bullsh!t: I think she's dragging him around, holding out "the pussy" he needs, in order to slow-drain his resources and protection, for her own survival. She drags around the beta for months (Free dinners! He drives me to work! He likes to pay my rent!), secretly fucks the alpha, in seconds overnight, behind his back. She holds out for "the right one {aka the alpha male}" and pulls the strings like a master puppet manipulator for all the other 15 men chasing her currently.

Again, why play this sexuality game, if it's rigged for men to fail, even when they "win" - because you're sacrificing yourself and your resources just giving her in exchange what she wants and needs, and a possible wakeup call: it isn't just your penis.

Where is the love people? Then why does polarity exist between a man and woman? I can experience love with other guys, right? If it's totally non sexual. So most men and women get together not for "love" but 9/10 for heroine brain explosive sex, which implies a lot about Male-Female relationships then, so why bother?

Open to discussion.

Would like these ideas challenged or validated, but this is 20+ years of experience dealing with them, and watching men's lives destroyed and being totally unknowingly used, taken advantage of, and many who commit suicide when they "find out" what she was doing behind his back. Why even approach if they're just going to cheat. Confidence fails, you are NOT the top 1-5% Alpha King Males on the planet.

Infidelity. "Marriage" - you're telling me, in 18 years+, she's not going to "slip it in" with another guy, at one point, over that entire length of potentially boring sameness and time? And tell you right after and lose "her investment": your loyalty and resources?

Black widows much?

I don't want to almost hate women at this point, but I've seen too much.

You can keep what's in-between your legs, I'm good.