BP version:

Boy is the pursuer. Boy pursues girl of his choice. After some time, boy officially proposes a relationship with girl. Girl weighs her options and decides to be with him. They live happily ever after.

Reality:

Girl is the pursuer. Boy pursues other girls according to BP propaganda but fails each time because it is just propaganda. Boy appears in bar/class/club/friend outing and girl is swept up by feelings of “love at first sight”. Girl aggressively pursues and converses with him on the first meeting. Gets his number. Goes home with him and lies on the bed with him even though they have just met. Initiates sex with him and then gives him an ultimatum to be her boyfriend. Guy of course, accepts.