Are women the true pursuers and gatekeepers in relationships, not men? Tbh I have not seen many examples of men successfully pursuing and taking a girl on dates Until they enter a relationship, most relationships seem to have started from the female pursuing them first

Is my observation unique? The same holds true even in casual environments like clubs. Ive never seen a single example of a guy successfully picking up a stranger girl from a club the way they show it in movies. Most successful hookups and make outs inn the club seem to have started from a girl approaching a man, not the other way around. Pure approaches by guys as opposed to approaches by women hardly seem to ever work out.