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[–][deleted] 19 points20 points21 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Have you considered a gentler rat poison?
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lmao
[–]ZealousMathematician1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Can confirm. Asians aren’t all they are cracked up to be.
[–]patosher7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I've dated 2 Chinese women (Both were born and raised in China, living in North America for the past 4 years).
Both of them constantly talked about money everyday. Both of them had no idea what they were doing during sex/kiss (terrible and boring).
One day we went out, she told me she was hungry, and I said: "Oh there's a nice foodcourt over there". And she replied: "What? Food court? I wanna go to a nice restaurant."
In the car she was talking about how her friend was unhappy with her boyfriend because he was not paying everything for the girlfriend. "He is so cheap!" "My friend is considering breaking up with him". "In my culture men must pay everything."
The other ex when we were fighting (this was less than 2 months of dating her): "You NEVER buy gifts for me! NEVER. You are not romantic!"
And another time: "Hahahaha my friend bought jewelry for her girlfriend. I'm gonna leave you and date him hahahaha joking..."
"My friend told me I should not date you because there is another guy I was talking to and he can provide more things to me."
And as a bonus, some of her comments: "You look better in pictures than in person." "You look more attractive when you look sad/unhappy." "EAT MORE! Look your leg. Look that guys leg over there. You are too skinny EAT MORE!!!" "I like you because you look a cold person" (She approached me when I was in the class and gave her number because I look "cold". ?)
In the end, I found out both were cheating on me. One using Tinder, the other Happn. "Oh no, it... it... was not for me. I was just showing this for my friend. She wants a boyfriend!" "Im gonna delete, OK? HERE DELETED!" Then she started crying and called me a sociopath stalker spy because I should not look at her phone screen. (She put the Tinder icon inside a folder so the icon was much smaller).
Both of these were my first dating experience :)
I regret many things and I'll not make the same mistakes again.
[–]shit-zen-giggles4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Again, can confirm 100%.
Hypergamous as fuck, always shit testing / nagging.
Regarding sex: I took charge and made sure she has 2-3 orgasms et voila, Madame was a jolly, happy girl, very willing to experiment. Among the top partners, I've ever had.
There's a reason there's 1.3 billion Chinese. You don't get to these numbers if all the people are prudes.
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[–]kj1073 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow, thanks for this.
[–]eja_cool82 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Elliott Rodgers explained. :(
[–]ijnenak7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you want to become a sexless cucked ATM who dies of overwork.
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
I dated a woman when I lived in China for 2 years, but there were some relationship issues that we couldn't get past. In all honesty, I really hope it goes well for you.
For women that grew up in China, there are special rules that apply. Watch out for her parents as they will require you to own a house, car, and a decent income (doctor, etc.). They can make your life miserable and they have the power to force their daughter to dump you if they do not approve of you. It doesn't matter how much their daughter likes you, or how well the relationship is going, or how wild the sex is. For Chinese from China, it is always family comes first. If you make her choose between her parents and you, she will choose her parents every time.
They have complete control over their daughter and they will use her to get to you. That's the major "gotcha" in Asian relationships that western men will get blind-sided by. Buy her parents gifts on all the holidays and treat them with respect and you should be ok for the short term..
For the long term, they will start sticking their nose into your business (what you do every day, how much you make, how you spend your time, how you treat their daughter, what kind of car you drive, how you treat old people, how you dress, whether you are Buddhist or not, whether you are charitable or not, etc. etc. etc.) and either approve or not approve of the relationship which will be the only deciding factor in whether you will be able to marry her. If you don't marry her within a few years, the parents will force her to date somebody else and she will do it, because family comes first.
There is one exception to this rule, and that is the situation where the girl has had a serious falling-out with her family where they are always fighting and can't stand being around each other (usually due to having a very rebellious and misbehaving daughter). In that situation, I think you should buy a lottery ticket because you're lucky as hell to be dating an Asian woman and not have to deal with her parents.
Again, all the above only applies to Chinese women from China. American Chinese for the most part are just like any other American women (except more pretty, obviously).
[–]exegesis12 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We both just read this and laughed so hard cause that is exactly what happened. She doesn't get along with her parents.
[–]shit-zen-giggles1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've a similar history and can confirm this 100%. Her father did not accept a non-Chinese partner and over and out it was.
Also don't underestimate the problems arising from mere subtle cultural differences and / or communication problems. It's not just language, but also communication patterns / underlying assumptions.
[–]DangZagnut3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nope. For the same reason given in the article.
This is another ridiculous assumption propagated by Western liberal feminists. At the end of the day, a woman is a woman and a man is a man.
In the end, they're just women. And suffer the same problems as any other woman.
[–]jinandtonic20xx5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No tits, no ass no thanks
[–]kj1072 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
One thing is for sure, if you’re white, Asian women are far more likely to give you attention, even for the average looking white dudes who most American girls happily ignore for chad pump and dumps.
I have to admit, it’s nice not to hate myself for a change. The attention feels good. You actually feel like a catch. My Asian friend hates seeing their women do this to their own kind though.
[–]ThrowawayGhostGuy12 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol no
[–]mthrowaway522 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
AWALT
[–]Ohboohoolittlegirl2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nope. It's all a shitshow. Location doesn't matter.. Internet has ruined that for everyone.
no car, no house, no girl (official)
nagging, shit testing sample
[–]mrp_18441 point2 points3 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
While it is true there are old white, Western guys who take on younger brides from the less developed parts of China, Thailand, and the Philippines, this certainly is not the norm.
Oh yes it is.
The idea that this is strictly a white guy-Asian girl thing is absurd and based in racism.
Sorry, Asians are some of the most raciest people I have ever met. They also don't apologize for it.
The Asian women who date Western men reject their own chauvinistic men in favor of the more equal-minded Western ones.
Bull-crap. The do it for money. They are some of the most hypergamist women around.
In reality, the majority of Western guys that go with Asian women are just normal dudes.
Not in my experience. But so what?
In reality, the vast majority of Asian women are not after a green card or money.
Absolutely clueless.
I know dozen guys married to Asian women. That article is wrong. However, Asian born women are better then western women. But they are still women. Statistically far less likely to divorce. They all want at least one child.
[–]secant1281 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Check this out:
https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/76x9hd/south_koreas_radical_feminists_openly_say_they/
Also search womad.
[–]RighteousSouljah1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I use to love asians. First LTR 5years was a cute vietnamese virgin. She kissed a guy at her job then when i broke it off for a while she fucked a short black dude named chad then came crawling back. Ehckkkkk
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