My mom worked 8 years at Tim Hortons when I was a child but she hasn't worked since I was 14 ish. She has everything she wants/needs in life. She gets up takes the kids to school buys a coffee puts on a fake smile while talking to her friends? At the window. Drives in a nice car to the farm where she plays with her 3 horses all day. When she arrives home after getting the kids she starts bitching and yelling and telling me how much of an awful person I am to be around. She's very hypocritical she often likes to call me a blood sucking parasite. After she gets home she plays on Facebook recapping her day for all her friends to see. She's always angery she never wants anyone to talk to her.

My dad has been working his whole life. He makes 6 figures. My mom gets her own car 3 horses which cost $1000/m to board them on a property. That's his money the rest is spent on his car payment rent bills food ect. She has huge studio loans that cost $300 a month probably a minimum. And she rarely cooks anymore.

Do you see any problem here. My dad asked me today "why am I even here" he then says he'd be much happier living alone in an apartment. I don't know if he's actually gunna do it but he could easily. They aren't married. I know I want to get out of here before that happens.

It's objectively impossible to talk to them about any of this they are too deep I'm guessing it's reaching a boiling point. We'll see but just wanted to share a real life story.