In need of A strong reminder about mgtow

801735 · 2017-11-01T14:33:09+00:00

but when she got into another relationship I ended up being more upset.

About what? Really?

ex girlfriend

She was not yours, you were not hers, it just happened to be your time together and it ran out. That's that.

Life goes on even if you don't live it, so, meh, why not, I guess, if I really have to.

why I should not be put down about this.

We only put horses down if legs break iirc. Used to be to make soup, too (looking at you, hard ww2 soldiers times), but lately others do that for us neatly away from sight so we don't have to preoccupy ourselves with that. (takes selfie)

Why sex and a relationship isn't worth what it seems.

Well, as you get older your balls give up the fight with the brain for control over your body and mind. +-

Thank you guys.

Np uw. That's why we're here sometimes.

Life ok besides the thoughts about axe?

2017-11-01T14:35:14+00:00

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2017-11-01T20:56:25+00:00

This is the price I paid for marriage and relationships:

Lost 1.5 mil in assets.
Can only see my kids 4 days a month.
Ex wife moves her BF in with her, I still have to pay alimony.
Had a massive heart attack due to the stress of divorce and working 100+ hours/week to crack the monthly nut. 2+ minutes of cardiac arrest, 4 days in a comma, 27 days in the hospital, dodged needing a heart transplant by a hair (literally).

So over all, really bad trip, will not repeat.

Hope these are good enough for you.

jkarovskaya · 2017-11-01T14:37:31+00:00

Do you have any dreams? Long term dreams, not wet dreams. Many men, especially younger men don't realize how badly consequences can be, the long term affects.

Not sure as to why the breakup, but considering how you say you are feeling i am guessing she moved on. Let me ask you this. Say she had stuck with you a bit longer. let us say four more years.

In those four years, you had two children together. Then she wanted to move on, and did. Now you only get to see your kids every other weekend. But you are super tired, since you had to pick up that second job to pay for the support, medical bills etc. They come over, and the oldest is telling you about how mean a couple of the guys mommy is dating are to him and his little brother. And there is jack shit you can do about it. Now stretch this out for the next decade and a half, as you watch your sons grow more bitter and angry, withdrawn. Drugs. In trouble with the law. All while being pulled into court every other year in a further move to extract your money by her.

Is a few hours of smashing it worth any of that?

Nezborn02 · 2017-11-01T15:10:33+00:00

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2017-11-01T15:13:36+00:00

Be strong. The more you resist the temptation, the stronger you get. the stronger you get, the more people will respect you, and then you'll be even MORE tempted than ever. Take that opportunity to not buck, and you'll be even stronger. But it never ends, there is no point at which you've finally "broken through to the other side" like Morrison put it. That's called being human. That's why we respect strength: because it's difficult and the battle never ends.

lonewolf-chicago · 2017-11-01T14:44:19+00:00

It will go away. Might take a few more months but it will.

Regarding it in general keep coming on here and reading stories of real people whose lives were ruined by women for no fucking reason.

The diseases...the backstabbing. The gossip, the shaming, the domination, the lying, mooching, manipulation....

You'll learn eventually.

SRod1706 · 2017-11-01T22:02:58+00:00

Jerk off at least twice then see how much less you care.

Lots of jerking off, 3 times a day really helps you think with your logic and not your biology.

Nezborn02 · 2017-11-02T00:33:43+00:00

It was just your turn. remember that. The next guy's turn will be over soon

arkyleslyfox · 2017-11-01T20:55:10+00:00

I know exactly how you feel, I went through the same thing, it took years for me to get over it, however for me it was a necessary evil (or good depending on your perspective), when I did emerge from the other side, I was so much stronger, and knew that I could never be hurt like that again. I've had way worse done to me than being dumped since Lol and and none of it comes close to being painful. For me love and intimacy really means codependent, needing a female to validate you, once you take that pussy off the pedestal and start doing things for YOU the whole game changes. Just keep going until you have that aha! Moment!! Peace out brother

Title	In need of A strong reminder about mgtow
Author	Ghosthermit108
Upvotes	7
Comments	18
Date	November 1, 2017 2:26 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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